Aspergers Syndrome

Supposedly there is a growing epidemic of autism and related disorders such as aspergers.  One possible reason is that men and boys are being diagnosed for simply being men and boys.  Our feminized society tries to stamp out natural male behavior whenever possible.  It also tries to pretend that nothing negative ever happens to men and boys such as the growing numbers of adult virgin men.  Because of that I found this comment interesting:

I’m an introvert and a lot of my friends are introverts. I have been told by multiple people that they think I have Aspergers. So have several of my friends. We’re all guys. We’re all adults, and we’re all able to have regular independent lives. We all hold down jobs without trouble.

Where is this we have Aspergers coming from? The explanations come done to one sentence: We’re not or unable to get laid. That’s it. Sure they will try and claim their reasoning is more complicated, but that’s it.

I have to wonder about how much of this “autism spectrum epidemic” is due to labeling men and teenage boys that aren’t popular with women/can’t find a girlfriend to save their lives. This would not have been an issue in earlier times. There was arranged marriage, but beyond that there was much more family and community involvement in finding romantic/marital partners. An introvert might not be able to attract women easily but in earlier times a woman’s family & community would push her to get involved with an introverted man. Now that family & community structure doesn’t exist leaving a lot of introverted men alone. Rather than dealing with the problem, it gets called “Aspergers”.

I have seen the same thing.  A few people have told me I have Aspergers.  When I tried seeing psychologists to solve my problem of why women were repulsed by me, the last psychologist thought I might have Aspergers but wasn’t sure.  The psychologist had me see others to try and figure out if I had Aspergers.  This was when I stopped trying to find a psychologist as it became clear that they were trying to label me Aspergers but had a real problem since they had no legitimate reason to do so.  It had to be “my fault” because they didn’t want to admit women could ever be evil but they couldn’t force me into the Aspergers box.  The facts prevented them from doing that.  (There’s more to my story with psychologists which I will get around to eventually.)

What happened is that the psychologists and the other people who wanted to label me Aspergers did so for one reason, lack of female interest in me.  The problem is that they were so indoctrinated by feminist ideology that none of these people could admit what was really happening to me.  They can’t admit that women are responsible for their own behavior and capable of evil.  Our feminized society says that whenever a woman does something wrong it has to be a man’s fault.  This is done to the point where men are given fabricated medical diagnoses such as Aspergers.  Why is there a sudden epidemic of autism and aspergers?  Because our feminized society is trying to free women from repsonsibility completely and force it on men.

No Women In Our Lives

I found this interesting comment:

Well into my adulthood, having earned a Master’s Degree, but never have had a girlfriend. If anything, life has taught me that if you don’t have a girlfriend, then you won’t have any women (save your mother) in one’s life. 

I have found the same thing to be true (within reason).  I don’t have any women in my life except for my mom beyond the minimal encounters of such things as the check out girl at the grocery store, etc.  If you have been reading this blog you know that my work is mainly male and the women at my office I avoid as much as possible to prevent another sexual harassment lie against me.

This comment did not surprise me.  It’s true of me and my friends which are all guys in the same boat more or less.  If anyone of us knew some women we all would. 

This is an example of how women are trying to shut us virgin men out of society which is why we need to FIGHT BACK.

Updated: Hookingupsmart Comments

Update: I was not banned from Hooking up smart. It was a misunderstanding. Susan my apologies.

I hadn’t posted a single comment at HUS in over a day and a half and all of a sudden, some questionable comments were posted.  I tried posting a response but I kept getting a error.  Some of their comments are baseless since they come from the Catalog of Anti-Male Shaming Tactics.

Here is my response below.

I’m going to keep this short and sweet and respond to everything at once.

1. I’m not sure how there can be numerous complaint emails against me when I rarely comment here. More so I haven’t posted a comment in over a day and a half when this nonsense about me started.

2. Poly Desi aka Bag Lady aka Desi FPUA aka thousands of other names I can’t remember is the biggest supporter of the OP. Susan have you checked the IPs of Smitten and Poly Desi to make sure it isn’t one of her names? Poly Desi has been banned from multiple blogs such as Obsidian’s for sockpuppeting and trollish behavior.

3. I have without reservation denounced violence multiple times on different blogs as a method of dealing with these problems. That doesn’t mean the problem of violence will go away. There will be more Sodinis in the future. More and more men are being politically, economically, socially, and yes, sexually/romantically disenfranchised. The response here is that its “scary”. Don’t open up a history book because they are filled with chapters about disenfranchised people being violent.

I am not the only one to talk about this. Roissy, Obsidian, and The Fifth Horseman have all talked about this in greater detail than I have. They have also had lots of sex. I’m sure you will call them “bitter and angry virgins” too.

If you find my minimal Sodini predictions scary, I’m surprised no one is scared by my predictions about a future military dictatorship or theocracy. With growing numbers of disenfranchised men, they are more and more likely to vote for and support a change to a military dictatorship or a theocracy. That will cause you more problems than a random Sodini.

4. If you don’t want to befriend a lonely guy then don’t. Putting aside that doing such a thing as group is safer and more effective, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. But let us lonely male virgins live without interference from women trying to be cruel to us. Don’t randomly throw drinks in our faces because we’re in the same room as you but keeping to ourselves. Don’t make up sexual harassment stories to get us fired from our jobs.

5. I am not blaming all women for the actions of a few women. Most women haven’t tried to get me fired from my job by making up a sexual harassment story. What women have done is refuse to support me or refuse to support facts, truth, honesty and decency. One time I was hundreds of miles away from the office where the sexual harassment story took place on a business trip. No woman would support me even in such an obvious case. If it wasn’t for my field of work being mainly men, I’m sure I would be unemployed right now and another statistic in the mancession.

6. When I say I have given up I mean it. I have no right to demand sex or a relationship from a woman. I agree with that statement. What I want is to be able to do things like go to work without having to wonder if today I’m going to get another sexual harassment complaint against me. I want to live my life in peace, and I do have a right to that.

7. I’m not interested in a flame war so this is the last thing I have to say about this.

How Things Really Work

We constantly hear lies such as, “Women make 70 cents for every dollar a man makes.”  I found a comic over at Rise of the Zeta Male that speaks truth to these lies.

This actually tells us what happens in reality.  Men work 8, 9, 10, or even more hours than that every day and women get massive cuts of that money simply for being women.  There are the massive government outlays for women.  Everything outside of defense and law enforcement is mostly for women.  It gets even more insidious.   At every job I have ever worked at most of the women were only working around 10% of the time.  For us men women really are stealing a 70% cut of our productivity.

If you don’t believe me take a look at this link at The Spearhead.  That link is all about a woman throwing a tantrum since businesses found out she could be replaced by voice mail and Microsoft Office.  If a few basic pieces of software can replace a woman easily, then she ain’t doing much work.

The “Work” Of Idle Women

This week there was a bunch of “diversity” BS at my job.  Some woman or mangina at my employer’s head office said that we needed to more about “diversity” so a bunch of stuff was setup around Cinco De Mayo.  Nearly all of the engineers including myself boycotted the “diversity activities” which meant most of the office boycotted them.

The “diversity” BS started earlier this year when HR started sending emails to form a “diversity comittee”.  There were multiple emails over a few weeks requesting volunteers and reminding us over and over again that this was an “important” initative from the head office.  All the engineers ignored it because we’re there to do WORK not waste time by engaging in the most pointless of mental masturbation.  There are only women on the “diversity comittee” and no one from the engineering side of things.  Nobody who does actual WORK has the time for such BS or the belief that its a good idea.

Of course “diversity” doesn’t include any actual diversity.  Every email about the “diversity committee” or the “diversity activites” repeated the same BS about how “diversity” is about learning from different perspectives.  They really don’t want different perspectives because its clear they don’t want the perspective of an adult male involuntary virgin.  That would be a truly different perspective which is more evidence that “diversity” is just another scheme to hide the fact that women aren’t doing WORK.

I’m forced to conclude that 85% of the women could be fired from the office and productivity would only increase since they aren’t doing actual WORK, and they wouldn’t be around to hold the rest of use back.  I’m not surprised.  Why do the women where I have worked have the time to make up sexual harassment stories about me?  Because their “jobs” don’t involve actual work like the men’s job.  This gives them time to scheme against those of us men doing real WORK that they find too nerdy and unattractive.  These women should not have a job here or anyplace else.

Tim Allen said that men have two choices, work or go to jail.  Women have more choices such as a job without work.  A man could not get away with what these women are doing or really not doing.  Even the manginas supporting these women couldn’t get away with women are not doing.

Still Not Getting It

Many of you still aren’t getting what the deal is.  Let’s start with what “Emo-psyche issues” said:

Pheonixism, I’d like to address an issue that I feel goes overlooked in the world of “dating advise” — disorders.

ADD, ADHD, OCD, ASPERGERS, DEPRESSION, YOU-NAME-IT.

MANY guys are suffering from mild-extreme cases of the above disorders and more, whether diagnosed or not.

The cry “nice guys finish last” is often heard from guys with one or more of the above issues.

Look guys, you may be “nice” but that doesn’t mean women don’t sense something “off” about you.

I know SEVERAL guys like this, just in my own family, work and social circles. So if I know several, just imagine how many are out there???

This needs to be addressed.

“Em0-psyche issues” has posted under four different names here and I discovered that she is the “bag lady” troll from Obsidian’s blog so I banned her.  Let’s say that I have one of these disorders and women sense me as “off”.  I doubt it but if I did then it doesn’t matter.  It doesn’t give women the right to steal my money via socialism.  It definitely doesn’t give women the right to try and get me fired from my job by fabricating sexual harrasment stories. 

Let’s read what Wicked Shawn said:

Certainly there are pathologies and disorders that would potentially cause social ‘ineptitude’ on levels where a man might cross sexual boundaries without even realizing it. These could also explain why he would find himself at an older than average or desired age and still a virgin.
This is not, however, the fault of the female population at large.

I never said it was.  I have said over and over and over again that I have no right to demand anything from women.  But that also means women have no right to demand anything from me.  If women want nothing to do with me for whatever reason then that is their right.  But if they want nothing to do with me then they should have nothing to do with me completely.  That means no stealing my money via socialism.  It means no throwing drinks in my face if I dare to talk to them.  It really REALLY REALLY means no interference with my job by fabricating complete lies about sexual harassment to get me fired.  I already keep my contact at work with women to the minimum required.  WOMEN HAVE NO GODDAMN EXCUSE FOR THEIR BEHAVIOR TOWARDS ME. 

If women have the right to be free from me THEN I HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE FREE FROM THEM, THEIR ATTEMPTS AT DESTROYING MY LIFE, AND THEIR HYPOCRISY.  It’s that simple and no anti-male shaming tactic changes that fact.

False Sexual Harassment Claims

A lot of people reading this blog don’t understand what I’m talking about when I say that male virgins need to fight back.  That’s because they don’t what has happened to us.  It’s not about being made fun of for being a virgin.  I haven’t had that happen in a very long time.  My friends are all men who are in the same boat as I am.  They are either virgin men, “near-virgin” men (they may have paid a hooker or just got very lucky once or twice), or in one case a guy who was successful with women when he was making only $10K a year but now no women are interested in him now that he makes good money (6 figures).

Over time I will tell you about everything that has happened to me.  While it would help if I could tell you everything that has happened to me in one shot, I only have so much time so it will take a while.  While there has been the being made fun of, the things I am usually talking about are things that could get me thrown in jail or lose my job.  One of these things that has happened to me is false sexual harassment claims.

Notice I said claims, plural, because this has happened to me more than once.  I work in the STEM sector of the ecnonomy which is mainly men, but there are a few women here and there.  However, the problem is invariably the female support staff (non-STEM) for the companies I worked for.  I remember the first time this happened to me.  I got pulled into the office of the director of human resources, a woman, who after explaining the complaint starting accusing me of everything possible related to this complain.  Clear this HR woman was in the pocket of the woman who made up the sexual harassment story.  Facts and logic such as how I never even had contact with this woman who made up the story didn’t make the HR woman budge.  Fortunately, I had the smarts to start talking to the nearest MALE vice president to get them involved.  While that worked to a point, the male VP got stuck in that while he knew everything I said was the truth firing the woman who accussed me was a problem because they were afraid of a sexism lawsuit.  The woman who accussed me did end up fired only because that VP I talked to did some investigating and lucked out by finding that she embezelled $20,000 from the company.  That gave my employer a way out.

There was another case at a different company where a different woman accussed me of sexual harassment.  This one was different in that during the time when I supposedly sexually harassed this woman I was on a business trip in a city hundreds of miles away.  Of course, that didn’t stop the HR woman I had to deal with from going after me.

I won’t bore you with every story of a false sexual harassment claim against me.  So far I have been lucky that I haven’t lost my job.  I know other guys who haven’t been so lucky.  This isn’t something that has just happened to me.  I have seen it happen to many of my male STEM coworkers and collegaues.  This is prevalent because of several problems.  Women have so much power in our society that they can get away with doing these things with impunity.  Even though the male executives at my employers know I’m innocent they can’t just fire the female troublemakers because they are afraid of BS sexism lawsuits.  (If you don’t believe me, take a look at the BS sexism lawsuit against WalMart.)  HR is almost completely female in STEM companies and that may be true in general so HR is always in the back pocket of any woman who wants to make up a BS story against a man because women always defend each other no matter how crazy a woman is.

Why has this happened to me and other guys?  I suspect its because the women can’t stand most guys working in STEM.  At one of my jobs, a male coworker of mine overhead a conversation between several women who also worked there.  These women were all talking about how they wish they could get rid of the “nerdy and geeky engineers” and replace them with good looking guys.  Of course, if you don’t like how geeky and nerdy your male coworkers are, FIND A NEW JOB WOMEN, don’t make up sexual harassment stories against them.  I also noticed that the sexual harassment stories are more likely to be against single and divorced men.  These are men with less female contact.  I figure that’s because the less contact a man has with women, the more likely women will think their made up sexual harassment story will stink.

At this point in my life I am forced to conclude there has never been an actual example of sexual harassment against a woman.  It’s just an excuse to attack men.  I now minimize the contact I have with women at work.  That way when the next sexual harassment BS story comes up I can say that I never had any contact with this woman or that I haven’t spoken to this woman in three weeks.