Supposedly there is a growing epidemic of autism and related disorders such as aspergers. One possible reason is that men and boys are being diagnosed for simply being men and boys. Our feminized society tries to stamp out natural male behavior whenever possible. It also tries to pretend that nothing negative ever happens to men and boys such as the growing numbers of adult virgin men. Because of that I found this comment interesting:
I’m an introvert and a lot of my friends are introverts. I have been told by multiple people that they think I have Aspergers. So have several of my friends. We’re all guys. We’re all adults, and we’re all able to have regular independent lives. We all hold down jobs without trouble.
Where is this we have Aspergers coming from? The explanations come done to one sentence: We’re not or unable to get laid. That’s it. Sure they will try and claim their reasoning is more complicated, but that’s it.
I have to wonder about how much of this “autism spectrum epidemic” is due to labeling men and teenage boys that aren’t popular with women/can’t find a girlfriend to save their lives. This would not have been an issue in earlier times. There was arranged marriage, but beyond that there was much more family and community involvement in finding romantic/marital partners. An introvert might not be able to attract women easily but in earlier times a woman’s family & community would push her to get involved with an introverted man. Now that family & community structure doesn’t exist leaving a lot of introverted men alone. Rather than dealing with the problem, it gets called “Aspergers”.
I have seen the same thing. A few people have told me I have Aspergers. When I tried seeing psychologists to solve my problem of why women were repulsed by me, the last psychologist thought I might have Aspergers but wasn’t sure. The psychologist had me see others to try and figure out if I had Aspergers. This was when I stopped trying to find a psychologist as it became clear that they were trying to label me Aspergers but had a real problem since they had no legitimate reason to do so. It had to be “my fault” because they didn’t want to admit women could ever be evil but they couldn’t force me into the Aspergers box. The facts prevented them from doing that. (There’s more to my story with psychologists which I will get around to eventually.)
What happened is that the psychologists and the other people who wanted to label me Aspergers did so for one reason, lack of female interest in me. The problem is that they were so indoctrinated by feminist ideology that none of these people could admit what was really happening to me. They can’t admit that women are responsible for their own behavior and capable of evil. Our feminized society says that whenever a woman does something wrong it has to be a man’s fault. This is done to the point where men are given fabricated medical diagnoses such as Aspergers. Why is there a sudden epidemic of autism and aspergers? Because our feminized society is trying to free women from repsonsibility completely and force it on men.
Back in my late teens, early 20′s, I was fighting some serious cognitive and social oddities brought on by my stunted levels of socialization. This brought me to the shrink, obviously. The psychologists volunteered voluminous levels of diagnostic bullshit and the psychiatrists fed me neuroleptics and anti-depressants. The side effects were horrible. I told the psychiatrist ‘fuck this, I’m not taking this shit anymore’ and I walked away and never looked back.
The mental health field is feminized claptrap and obviously we are well aware of the power of the pharmaceutical industry. Rather than attend to personality and emotional immaturities which are behavioral in origin, they fall back on the DSM flavor of the month.
Phoenixism I’m not surprised that happened to you. I haven’t had to deal with pharmaceuticals being pushed on me from my experiences in the mental health arena but I suspect that’s just dumb luck. I ended up going through several psychiatrists. That’s because I couldn’t get past one session with most of them. I made the “mistake” of trying to do some research on my own and suggested a sex surrogate. The response to that was universally, “I’m not a pimp!”. There was the psychiatrist who accused me of lying about my experiences with women. There was the psychiatrist who tried to convince I had been in relationships with women but repressed the memories of it. Of course I had none of the symptoms of repressed memories. Last was the psychaitrist that thought I had aspergers but again I didn’t meet the criteria.
These people were on fishing expeditions pure and simple. When you go to a regular doctor you can get an annual physical where the doctor will tell you if there is nothing wrong with you and send you on your way. A psychiatrist will not do that. They go on fishing expeditions instead.
The entire mental health field is feminized (and politicized as a result). My experiences prove that. As soon as the issue of women came up which it did immediately since that was my issue, they couldn’t deal with it since it meant admitting women were wrong about something.
I think that the man I quoted in my post is on to something. We hear plenty about growing numbers with autism/aspergers. But how many of these growing numbers are men who women want nothing to do with? Most I bet. These men are having an unnecessary and incorrect aspergers treatment forced on them simply because the mental health field can’t admit the truth about women and their hypergamy.
Something does not make sense.
Women are seeking higher-status men, but there are only so many of them to go around. This would mean many women would be left out entirely.
>>Women are seeking higher-status men, but there are only so many of them to go around. This would mean many men would be left out entirely.<<
Fixed that for ya, Michael.
Women have always been like that. But I suspect the reason why there are a growing number of male virgins is because of the increased tolerance for polyamory and other forms of non-monogamy in women.
Not quite.
I stated that there are clearly not enough high-status men to go around.
And I’M saying that because there aren’t enough alpha males for all the women out there who seek them, the alphas will be able to sleep around with lots of women! THAT is what happens in societies that legally permit polygamy: The high status men get ALL the women and the lower status males are shit out of luck.
Women are not all that keen in sharing men.
The former Mrs. Tiger Woods was not very tolerant of her husband’s polyamorous activities.
If you know the gender breakdown of people who are psychologists, you will understand why it is only among men that “an epidemic of Asperger’s” has been discovered. Psychology is understandably seen as a soft-touch subject, and having seen how lessons were conducted at university, with no critical thinking or questioning allowed… well, garbage-in, garbage-out. Especially when the lecturers both male and female said that no blame could be apportioned to females for their bad behaviour — that a man drove them to it.
With spurious reasoning and female supremacist ideology to back them, any man who is not an alpha is a target. But of course. Empires can only be built on the bodies of the weak (or those who don’t know better).
And remember, when you are dealing with those who have batshit wacko ideas, anything is justifiable.
Either they share a man and/or the high status men are hopping from woman to woman with no pause in between.
Either they share a man and/or the high status men are hopping from woman to woman with no pause in between.
Are women more open to sharing men than men are open to sharing women?
Also, what proportion of women who seek higher-status men actually get one instead of being alone?
When it comes to alpha men, yes.
It’s hard to say. Potentially a lot. Of course women won’t realize this until their wylie e coyote moment when they can’t ride the high-status man caruosel anymore. Plus more and more men know the deal so they won’t be women’s back up options.
So what do you think is the matter then, if not Aspergers? The vast majority of men lose their virginity in high school/early college. Most men are married by their late 20′s, with some holding out until their early 30′s. It isn’t that difficult for most men to get a woman, apparently, from looking around, even some of the dumbest and/or ugliest are often to able to acccomplish this minimal feat. You seem like a reasonably articulate guy, though I don’t know how you look. So what is the deal? Poor socialization? Aiming your sights too high? Poor hygiene/terrible looks? A complete lack of conversational ability? What do you think is holding you back from getting, and keeping a woman, when the vast majority of men are able to do so?
Female hypergamy.
But even with female hypergamy, most men still end up with a women. Perhaps not the most desirable woman in the world, but most humans eventually pair off and end up together. I could see the hypergamy excuse if most men in the US did not get laid and get married, but the overwhelming majority of them do. So what is holding you back from being one of them? You have a job, you are articulate. Even most white nerd types end up with a girl. So there has to be something more to it than hypergamy. I think that is what your therapist was searching for. Why have you failed to do what the vast majority of people can accomplish by middle school/high school/college? Most guys don’t have game, so it isn’t that. Severe hygiene issues might be a reason, but I’m assuming it isn’t that, because hopefully your therapist would have pointed it out. Crippling shyness? Physical deformities? They would be obvious explanations, but your therapist would not be reaching for an Asperger’s diagnosis if that was the case. I do sense some simmering anger and bitterness, which would turn a lot of women off, but certainly not every woman. Some (damaged)women may even be attracted to that. Is there any internal reason that you could fathom as to why you haven’t been in a relationship? Or is it really all the fault of women and their fickle natures?
Getting laid doesn’t mean that much. I know guys who have gotten laid once/twice/three times in their lives but for all intents and purposes they are in the same boat as I am. Saying they have “gotten laid” doesn’t tell us much, and I’m not even including the guys who went to a hooker.
As for the majority of men getting married, marriage is becoming less and less common. On top of that there’s the marriage strike and the mancession making previously marriageable groups of men not unmarriageable. I have worked in places where everyone except support staff was a man with a masters or a Ph.d. Only 50% of the guys were married. If you took out first generation immigrants its drops to 30%. It was clear the rest of us aren’t going to be married anytime soon.
More importantly lots of guys were willing to be a woman’s “plan b” when she got desparate since it got these guys something. More and more guys know the truth about this everyday and are refusing to be a woman’s “plan b”.
If any of that was a problem it would be clearer long before I went to a therapist. I would have trouble getting jobs, making the friends I have now, etc.
Agreed. The problem is that I have been to several therapists none of which could agree on a diagnosis except for the last one that suggested aspergers and that’s because he sent be to others saying that I might have aspergers. One said I was making it all up. Another claimed that I was repressing memories and that I had girlfriends in the past. Others I pissed off by suggesting I needed a sex surrogate.
To take the aspergers example why did they have so much trouble diagnosing me with that? It’s because I must have not met the diagnostic criteria. The diagnostic criteria for aspergers does not include unable to get laid or unable to get a girlfriend. As politicied and feminized as the mental health field is mental disorders still have real diagnostic criteria. Whether I have aspergers or not (or anything else) is not based on what women think.
I am angry and bitter now. I appriciate that you recognize I wasn’t always angry and bitter. A common response I get is that I need to stop being so angry and bitter as if I was born angry and bitter. That makes no sense.
I haven’t found any damaged women attracted to me, but if there was a damaged woman attracted to me I might give that a go.
The problem is that it isn’t just me. I know plenty of guys who are in the same situation. The internet in particular has shown how its more widespread than most think. But it isn’t just the internet either. I know guys like me IRL and guys who may not be virgins but are like me regardless.
If there was something wrong with me, the only thing I could guess at this point is that I have fallen through a series of loopholes. As I get farther and farther away from the majority sexually (when it comes to women only the distance is even greater), it gets harder and harder for me to solve. The obvious solution would be a sex surrogate but sex surrogates have all but vanished. The handful that are left of course only will work with you if a psychologist is involved. This seems reasonable except that the mental health field is ideologically anti-surrogate because the mental health field is anti-male.
While female hypergamy is a problem, this is also a political (and by extension and economic) problem. It’s not as simple as the problem being just me. Lots of people will say that I must be the problem because I’m the only common element. The fact is I’m not. The same thing is happening to lots of other guys.
“Ending up with a woman” means very little, when the woman you “end up with” has had her “end” sorted away many times before.
It’s even worse when you see that the women that are “ended up with”, are those that choose to “end the marriage”.
The “End”.
Our minds are different than regular people. What they are implying is regulated on their norms. We are not supposed to adopt their ideas. If you feel there is something wrong with you, if you hear a voice inside your head to act then do it. But listening to others, their accusations wont really solve the problem.
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White and Nerdy, In my honest opinion I think the main reason you have problems with women is due to you having asperger syndrome like psychologists have diagnosed you with.
Of course I agree with you that feminism definitely causes problems with men, but all it does is worsen the conditions of men that have social problems, but it is not the root cause. Asperger syndrome is known as the “extreme male mind”, so most women naturally will be repulsed with social behaviors that they cannot relate to.
I think I might have mild asperger syndrome, though I’ve never been diagnosed with it, but I’ve noticed that when I don’t hide my asperger traits, the majority of women find me unattractive and will look down on me. However, if I try my best to hide these traits, I notice more women become attracted to me and most women will feel neutral towards me.
I think in the same way women attracted to men that “look” feminine, they are also attracted to men that have a female-like mind, unlike an extreme male brain like asperger that is unattractive to females because they don’t understand how their mind works because its so different.
I also don’t disagree with you that feminism causes problems with most men in general. However, it doesn’t hurt alpha males at all, whose minds are naturally attractive to women and have no trouble getting laid with lots of women. The average male will have trouble getting laid with any woman he wants, but they usually do not have problems getting a girlfriend if they have decent social skills and are decent looking. However, men with asperger syndrome get screwed over the most because their minds are unattractive to most women.
So what is a male with asperger syndrome to do? I think the best thing to do is work on hiding most of these traits and developing their social skills. This can happen over time as I have done this with moderate success, but it takes practice. Also, it’s best to not go after average women and instead go for geeky socially awkward women, though they are rare.
How do you know I have Aspergers? The psychologist who diagnosed me couldn’t find any real evidence that I have it. And what about the psychologists who thought I was making it all up? They were obviously wrong so why should I trust other psychologists especially when the field of psychology has been politicized and feminized?
I’m not sure if you have asperger syndrome or not. I think it’s best to read about asperger syndrome as much as possible and try to figure out if you actually have it or don’t. I’ve done this and found out that I had a mild version of it because I have only a certain amount of the asperger traits and only to an extent.
I think it could explain a lot of the problems you have with women because it’s possible that you might accidentally give off bad vibes to women unknowingly and they’ll accuse you of sexual harassment our of pure paranoia. I know at times I’ve given off bad vibes to women by accident, but gladly never to the extent to being accused of sexual harassment.
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Fuck you, dude.
I was really enjoying your blog until I read this post. So what you’re saying here is the circumstances of my own life are all my fault because I have Asperger’s Syndrome, but the circumstances of yours aren’t because you don’t? FUCK you.
I can’t help the way I was born. I’d love to accept being an “Omega Virgin” forever and ever (and I have) if it meant I could find employment. Why the hell do people like you feel the need to belittle and demean those of us in an even lower caste than yourself?
FUCK YOU!
(…but keep fighting the female supremacists…)
I reread my post 3 times. Where did you get the idea I was saying that men with Aspergers Syndrome are all at fault for their problems? I object to the medicalization of masculinity and overdiagnoses of Aspergers are used in that effort to shift the blame of women’s actions from women to men. I’m not the one blaming men. The female supermacists are.
Here:
“It had to be “my fault” because they didn’t want to admit women could ever be evil but they couldn’t force me into the Aspergers box.”
You’re basically implying that Asperger’s “could cause women to be evil” and that it would be “your fault”. In other words, the women aren’t really evil in situations where they have to deal with Aspie men. Their behavior is justified if the man they’re dealing with has Asperger’s Syndrome. It’s “his fault”.
Also, in your other posts linking to this one you mention “lying a lot” and Asperger’s in the same breath, as if equatable.
I do apologize for my ridiculous over-reaction above. I have a hair-trigger temper when I sense someone smearing those of us with Asperger’s. Sorry.
I’m saying they’re saying that not me. That should be clear from the context. I don’t have the time to make a blog post so verbose to avoid such an out there interpretation of a sentence I write. I’m not a lawyer and I don’t write legalese and I don’t apologize for that.