White and Nerdy,
I want to ask you some more questions that I’ve been asking myself lately. If you had the choose between cohabitating with a single mother, taking on a degree of financial and emotional responsibility for her children, and spending the rest of your life alone what choice would you make? To me all ideas about retaining dignity and making sure your keeping within the ideological guidlines of mens rights mean very little when your staring down the barrel of spending decades of your life completely alone. I’m 22, a virgin, never been on a date and all that, but I see my father over 55 completely alone, virtually no chance of getting any worthwhile female attention, living a hermit like existence and slowly withering away. So I know what my future is if I don’t find a solution to my omeganess, and it frightens me more than I can express in words. At this point I truly cannot possibly understand how somebody could say that being a mangina is worse than spending your entire life without any sexual/romantic connections with women whatsoever.
I would say that unless somebody has been a longtime incel who sees no possible change in sight they have absolutely no fucking idea what their talking about. So would you take the single mother, or the woman whose fucked over 100 duides over lifelong virginity?
I wrote an answer but I want to expand on that and make sure everyone sees it.
One of the problems I have with gamers is that they believe (whether they realize it or not) that any woman no matter how bad is worse than being alone. (This is an example of pedestalizing women. PMAFT is the only possible exception to this I have seen and I’m not so sure about that.) This is objectively false. I would rather be alone than be with a single mother with a gaggle of kids that had no genetic relation to me and a stretched out cunt from having been with hundreds of dicks. What is the point of that? To me the answer is obvious. Some of you might say that I only say this because I have never been presented with the choice. I say BULLSHIT to that. Look at it logically from my perspective. How does getting together with a single mother benefit me at all? Sex? Are you really fucking if it’s like throwing a hot dog down a hallway the Grand Canyon? Kids? They aren’t mine. Social acceptance? What’s the point? There’s absolutely no benefit.
Let’s not forget it’s not an either/or situation. It’s possible to get the worst of both worlds of being completely alone and being with a single mother. If a single mother is “interested” in me what does that mean? Does that mean she’s suddenly matured or gotten wiser about men? HELL NO. What she’s looking for is a chump to pay the bill she has run up. I don’t exist to pay off a single mother’s debt. FUCK THAT. I do enough of that involuntary because of taxes I am forced to pay effectively at gunpoint by the government in the feminist socialist totalitarian West. I am not choosing to do that with the rest of my money. And once she’s done with me then what? She will divorce me and take AT LEAST half my stuff. Then I will have to pay child support for kids that aren’t even mine (and that’s true even if I didn’t marry the single mother). This is if I’m lucky. I could also end up losing my freedom in the process. If I’m going to be alone then I will pick the option that preserves my money and freedom as much as possible. That option is not the single mother.
EHF brought up the example of his dad. EHF’s dad obviously got together with one or more women since EHF is here. EHF’s dad was probably married to EHF’s mom at one point. Did this stop EHF’s dad from ending up alone? No it didn’t.
To me the answer is so obvious. I choose to be a lifelong virgin/celibate/alone person because it’s clearly the better option than the “shit sandwich” of a single mother. This isn’t about some sort of “MRA purity” but real practical concerns.
Another question to ask is what is the world going to look like in the future? Even just 10 years from now in 2020? The Misandry Bubble by TFH (despite the fact I disagree with him about game) and PMAFT’s blog are good places to start. With the “adult entertainment” technologies of the future (virtual sex) am I going to even care that I’m alone in the future? More and more men will go on the marriage strike. More and more men are being locked out of relationships with women. Will I look like less of a loser and more like a prophet in the future? I can’t be sure but truths I and a just a small group of men know now will become common knowledge in the future. The misandry bubble can’t go on forever.
Gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you
I’ve been living on the edge so long
Where the winds of limbo roar
And I’m young enough to look at
But far too old to see
…
Wounds are all I’m made of
Did I hear you say that this is victory?
Something does not make sense, white and nerdy.
Why would a single mother be more likely to be interested in you than women in general?
Assman provided one answer. I answered the EHF’s question as asked which assumes that I would have a choice in the future. I doubt I will. If I was to have such a choice in the future it would be because of desparation on her part. She wouldn’t be interested in me but in my wallet and maybe a few other things. That’s why I assume that she would dump me like a hot potato once she sucked me dry like the financial vampire she is.
“Why would a single mother be more likely to be interested in you than women in general?”
I can answer that question with a question:
“Why are single mother dating websites the only ones where the females outnumber the males. “
Because most males would not think of posting a dating profile on a site catering to single mothers.
http://www.girlscompany.co.uk/london-escort-girls/kathleen/
http://www.girlscompany.co.uk/london-escort-girls/natalie/
Yeah I can’t wait until I too can become a wage slave to some used up slut and her bastard crotch spawns.
One of the problems I have with gamers is that they believe (whether they realize it or not) that any woman no matter how bad is worse than being alone.
Not most of the ones writing blogs. A lot of us have no desire to ever settle down. We just believe cumming in a pussy is better than cumming in our hands.
Instead of choosing between being a chump or manning the picket line, you could choose a third option. You could be the bear:
Next Phase of the Hypergamous Arms Race: Revenge of the Nerds?
BTW, did you choose your name after my favorite Weird Al song?
That’s tempting but really it’s not possible for me. Not when women hate my guts simply because I exist. If I had the opportunity I probably would go for it since God knows women deserve to be “eaten by the bear”.
Although there are real problems since I would have to make sure that any woman I might bang goes through a super comprehensive battery of STD tests at least 10 times since any woman I could get probably has already fucked hundreds of guys at least. And avoid single mothers since I will not deal with her womb turds and I don’t want to give the government another excuse to go after my money. (Even with not being married child support agencies have gone after men who were stupid enough to date single mothers.)
Yes that’s one of the reasons why I chose the name. The other was that at the time I found this area of the internet someone was talking about “white and nerdy” guys who can’t get laid. I thought it was only going to be temporary but I stayed in this part of the internet so the name stuck. I’m not as bad as the guy Weird Al plays in the video.
You are soooooooo aspie.
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Get an escort and set yourself free. You will never look back.
In truth, porn is better. There are a ton of married women finding this out the hard way
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Dude,
Freeman nailed it. You probably really should be doing hookers. And in that vein, there are studies showing that the pussy actually gets tighter the more it fucks.
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I am by no means a whiteknight, but a lot of it would depend on the single mother. I am not excusing women for their lack of responsibility but a lot of women are victims of feminism as well. some lower status women dont have access to decent men, and if a woman has 1 kid out wedlock (depending on the age) it is not a good thing but morally I dont know if it is worse than dating a hypergamous divorcee who financially raped her husband. I think the worst thing in the world would be to engage the world with black or white thinking in these times. Social survival oftentimes requires hypocrisy. So I would say generally I would not date a single mother but there COULD be exceptions.
Those advocating hookers may be onto something, but I’d be worried about going broke. May have to try it sometime.
Avoid single mothers. They wouldn’t have wanted you when they were without children. Keep your dignity. If you’re the kind of man who would never leave the mother of your children, then you deserve better. Just say no.
@Pumpkinhead
I’m confident most single mothers of kids out of wedlock got left by the guy – at least those who didn’t just get pumped and pregnant on a one-nighter – and not the other way around.
Personally, if the single mother is a girl you would have had no shot with before, I believe it can serve as justification. I’m 47, my sugarbaby is a hot 23 year-old single mother. Had she not had a kid, she wouldn’t have been dating a guy twice her age like me. IMO, it balances out.
If its a girl that should have wanted a guy like you in the first place, then I would avoid her, because all you end up with is what you should have had, and all the hassles, baggage, and expense.
That is an interesting way of seeing it.
Single Mom´s are generally a BIG NoNo!
This list sums it up nicely: http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=6703
The only exceptions I´d even remotely consider is rape victims(whole other set of issues there) and widows. And only for the guys approaching half a century(like Dirk above) and with Mom´s in the rapidly wanning fertile phase of 25-35.
Though never without a prenup and a though screening for hardcore feminist brainwashing. Which right there excludes most of the entitled western females.