Chainring sent me an interesting email that he though should be shared with everyone. It’s a conversation with a “reformed” slut. Many of you men out there may thing something like, “women ignored me for the first 30 years of my life but my luck is finally starting to change.” In truth it’s not. All you are getting offered is a double stacked turd sandwich. Read the emails for more. There’s a lot I could say but like with morons like Carla and Thomas George simply allowing their comments to be read by everyone proves my points. (Chainring’s comments are in red and/or brackets.
Conversation With A Reforming Slut[I met this woman online and we were discussing dating in NYC. Her comments in regular type, mine in red and/or brackets. Dashes indicate next email.]
I think its really sad when i meet someone who seems to have all the things in their life that would make one happy [i.e., an alpha with his shit together] but deep down they’re unhappy and emotionally fucked up because they have no one to share it with [projection at its finest].
The kind of woman you share good and bad with….not just the woman you call or text at midnight and you know she’ll come around because its only about sex.
Those women are a dime a dozen. Its the other women that are rare and decent. [the irony of this comment will become apparent . . . keep reading]
I’ve been the FWB, i’ve been the sugar baby, i’ve dated all sorts of wealthy aging playboys from LA to Vegas to NYC. I’ve been the other woman. [i.e., I’ve been a wanton slut] Ive dated men my own age who still act like frat boys and have zero taste or class. And wouldn’t know the first thing about how to treat a lady – but maybe they’ll learn by the time their 45?
Its borrrrrring and pretty dull at the end of the day and honestly its totally one-sided…[in retrospect, riding the cock carousel wasn’t what you thought it would be, huh?] unless you’re one of Tiger Wood’s mistresses who got a payout to keep your mouth shut [I’m still willing to give it up for money]. I know i’ll probably never have children [she’s 33, and finding it hard to find a commitment-minded guy, so reality is starting to sink in]- but i’m not the type of girl who was always sentimental about that. I don’t even think i’d trust a man enough to marry him. BUT i would like to be in something committed with a man who is mature enough and smart enough to know what he’s got when he’s got it [pray tell, what would said guy have? a whore who doesn’t leave after sex?] – and not dumb enough to fuck it up.
It isn’t asking a lot.
[In my reply, I suggested she consider dating guys she normally wouldn’t have looked at twice – i.e., beta guys, because those guys might actually commit. Predictably, she ignored this advice and made no mention of it in her reply. Goes to show how once a woman has banged alphas, settling for betas is hard. Give her time though, she’s 33, and hasn’t quite hit the wall yet. A couple of years from now, she may very well be out beta hunting.]
[I asked the reforming slut if wanted to meet for a drink]
You dont sound ready to change your stripes. And i’m done being anyones FWB – because i know enough men who just want to be with me for sex. And my rule is nothing is no strings attached anymore [is that bitterness I detect?].
[blah blah blah about wanting to find a man to take her to dinner and being open to a relationship] Don’t get me wrong – im more sexual than most women and i love a good roll in the hay but i don’t give it away now [unlike before] to any guy just to stroke his ego. I don’t give it away for free anymore – lets put it that way [LOL, so now you want someone to pay for it after years of giving it away for free when you were younger hotter tighter???]. Sex is easy…its actually “connecting” or being open to “connect” with someone thats hard.————————————————————————————————————–A girlfriend of mine told me last night that basically any man who is a bachelor (never married) and is happy dating around NYC – is most likely a sex addict. [Ah yes, time for the shame grenades. It couldn't be that these men are simply taking advantage of the rampant sluttiness of women? No, they must be sex addicts. And what does that make the women who are so eagerly spreading their legs for these men?]
I laughed at that but the more i thought about it and looked at the dates that i’ve been on in nyc – i realized she’s right!?
So sad when you come across a good looking, bright, intelligent, articulate, well educated, successful, healthy, accomplished 40′s man (never married no kids) and realize he’s never gonna settle down not because he doesn’t want to – but because he’s a sex addict. Such a waste. That’s been my last 4 dates. (2 divorced, 2 never married)
But i’d rather go dateless for an entire year at least, than get involved with a guy like that. [Read between the lines fellas - she'd rather go dateless for a year rather than stoop to date a beta. Let's see how another couple of years of time and gravity impact this conviction.]
If i want sex i can get it…but its not about the sex for me anymore. I really want to find out if there are any good men left in NYC. [LOL. When a woman says 'good men', she means alpha who is willing to commit. Never mind the hordes of honest, decent, hard working betas - they don't count as men in her eyes.][There you have it gents, from the bitter little fingers of an aging, single slut, whose only value to the men she values is as a cum receptacle.A few things that stood out to me (and no surprise to readers here):1. Beta men are invisible to her.2. She is totally oblivious to the value of chastity, and how her slutting it up has ruined her for most men (alphas, betas and omegas, alike).3. Hilariously, now that she is done whoring around, she expects that you treat her decently and with respect. Never mind that she was one of those women she refers to as a 'dime a dozen' during her 20s. She's a diamond now, polished by the hard cocks and semen of many an alpha, and she expects to be treated like the fine, classy, lady she thinks she is. LOL. The eternal solipsism of the female mind on full display.4. As usual, women place the blame on men. Nevermind that the situation she finds herself in exists only because women are slutting it up, and nevermind that she was one of these sluts only recently!I have this slut's email address, so if you want me to ask her any questions, let me know, and I'll post her responses. But it has to be non-hostile, otherwise she'll stop responding.]