I’m Not Paranoid But My Enemies Are

I have been accused of paranoia because I take steps to avoid misandry and the legal and financial damage it will cause me.  (And the possible loss of freedom and life too.)  What I do may seem extreme but it’s really perfectly reasonable.  I have to be so extreme because even though most women won’t do anything to me, they will be accomplices by hiding and supporting the women that do.  I have no way of telling these two groups of women apart so I have to treat them all the same.

Something I have said from time to time is that nothing that has happened to me is unique to me and this is another example.  I’m not the only over 30 virgin male out there.  I’m not the only man who has had sexual harassment charges flung against me.  Even men who are much more successful with women than me deal with these problems.  If you walk into the “wrong” part of Barnes & Noble you will be thought of as a pedophile.  It’s common among women and manginas to think that single men (and in some cases even married men are pedophiles).  Look at the Spearhead post.  Plenty of these men who aren’t over 30 virgins like me have experienced plenty of misandry.  Misandry is the new Jim Crow and there is no escaping it.

I’m not the one who created all of these anti-male hysterias.  The believers of these anti-male hysterias are the paranoid people not me.  These women are projecting their hatred of the opposite sex on to men.  I’m just a dude trying to survive, no more and no less.

Just Not Getting It

I found another example of someone not getting it.  Addressing it point by point.

1. Don’t approach women or ask them out.

I have noticed this come up a lot, that I must never have asked women out.  It’s based off the stupid and insane idea that women always say yes if you ask them out.  I have tried going after women.  It’s been a failure EVERY TIME.  I don’t bother anymore because if it’s never going to work, it’s a collosal waste of time.

2. If you must approach women, make sure that they are much better looking than you are.

I have seen this too, that I must going be going after supermodels.  I have tried lowering and lowering and lowering my standards.  It didn’t work.

3. Pretend that Game doesn’t exist.

After all, it should be obvious that men who have never had sex EVER know far more about female psychology than successful Pick Up Artists, right?…right?…right?

Who said that PUAs were succesful?  Most of them are internet tough guys spending their Saturday nights playing WOW.  The married gamers are like that too except they’re under the thumb of their wives.  If the gamers were really successful they wouldn’t go apeshit when a nobody like me says that game doesn’t exist.

4. Never pay for sex.

Although the aforementioned blog author styles himself as an “Omega”, his attitude to the world’s oldest profession is remarkably Alpha.

However desperate they claim to be, Omega Virgins point blank refuse to have sex with any woman who isn’t motivated by love or lust!

I would say, “never pay for sex where it’s illegal.”  I don’t pay for sex not because I have an aversion to doing that.  I’m sure I will sooner or later.  More than I want sex, I want to avoid prison.  I also don’t think getting ass raped by bubba in prison is an answer to my lack of sex.  I also don’t want to get hooked and spending all my money on hookers.

The post I originally linked to didn’t have much of a point.

Game And Conspiracy Theory Creates Sodinis Not Virginity

This was said at Roissy’s blog.

I found the next George Sodini. It’s clear that this dude will eventually crack and go on a shooting spree. I will be interested if he decides to kill himself afterward or not. Unlike Loughner he’s much more coherent and lucid. If he survives his shooting spree it will be the first case where an attack of this nature will be defended by its perpetrator with MRA rhetoric, the ideology of losers without game.

The link in the comment was to this blog.  I have gotten that before in comments here or elsewhere.  I’m sure there are many more people who believe I’m going to “go Sodini”.  It’s not because of facts or evidence.  It’s because THEY WANT IT TO BE TRUE.  Yes, I believe that THEY WANT ME TO GO SODINI.  Women want me to go Sodini because it justifies their attacks on me which otherwise make them look evil.  Some men want me to go Sodini because they’re internet keyboard jockeys who are all talk when it comes to getting laid.

Look at who Sodini, Gunwitch, and Loughner and what they really were about.  Sodini wasn’t a virgin like me.  He actually got laid.  He also spent time at game or pua seminars.  Gunwitch was a game guru (and was still living with his mom at 31).  Loughner was a conspiracy theorist and he had girlfriends in the past.  IOW none of these guys are anything like me since I believe in neither game nor conspiracy theory.

While I’m surprised game and conspiracy theory caused this level of murder, I’m not surprised those things can screw up a person’s mind.  If they get that insane, then anything including mass murder is possible.  There’s also a lot of overlap between believers in game and believers in conspiracy theory.  Knowing these facts I’m forced to conclude that anyone who accuses me of “being the next Sodini” is trying to manufacture a situation where I would become the next Sodini.  It won’t work since their beliefs on what causes Sodinis are completely wrong, and I’m not going to give in to my enemies if nothing else.  If you think I’m wrong about this, ask this question: Comments on other blogs are one thing since I may never read them, but why would they come on to this blog and try and irritate me if they think I’m going to snap at any time?  Trying to get me to snap would make them at least morally an accesory to multiple murders if I really was what they claim.  (Thank whatever deity you believe or don’t believe in that I’m right because if I was wrong people would be dead.)

It’s game and conspiracy theory that creates Sodinis, not being a male virgin.

Women Lack Neither Sex Nor Relationships: Case Closed

There’s a myth that women control the supply of sex but men control the supply of sex.  This is bullshit because a man deprived of sex is guaranteed to be deprived of relationships too.

That’s not the only reason it’s bullshit.  I found this comment which demands notice.

As far as I know, there are no women developing courses, DVDs, etc. and conducting seminars charging thousands of dollars to teach women how to land a guy for a relationship.

In contrast, you have a thriving industry where guys charge thousands of dollars with a large quantity of guys willing to pay to essentially learn how to get laid on a regular basis. And most of these guys “on paper” are normal, “nice”, good guys. Yet many couldn’t get laid to save their lives.

This is one example showing how the lack of sex for up to 80% of men is real.  If there was a similar lack of relationships among women there would be a similar sized industry catering to women charging boatloads of money to learn how to get a man in a relationship.  Yet there isn’t.  This shows that women are not lacking relationships in any way whatsoever.

Combine this with the fact that a lack of sex is a guarantee of a lack of relationships as well, that means women control the supply of both sex and relationships and lack neither.  When someone tells you how they know a woman who doesn’t get any positive attention from men, you know it’s bullshit.

There Are Women Who Actually Think They Get No Male Attention

Here’s an interesting update to yesterday’s postThere’s a post at Hooking Up Smart claiming that there are women who get lots of boyfriends and women who get few or none.  We all know that’s total bullshit.  The post claims that the “least deserving” women get boyfriends all the time but how would you tell “less deserving” from “more deserving” women on the basis of the men they get.  This is impossible since all women have multiple men interested in them at any particular time.  I imagine something like this is going through women’s heads.

I was hit on by 20 guys today but none of them count since none of them were over 6’3″, looked liked Brad Pitt, made over $250,000, etc.  None of these men met any of my 1268 point checklist.  Why do the bitches get all the men?

No woman understands what it’s like to get no (positive) attention from the opposite sex.  Even Norah Vincent when she went “undercover” as a man for 18 months, didn’t experience what it was like to be universally rejected by women.  Her experiences caused her to check herself into a mental hospital for depression.  That’s no surprise since no woman has experienced what millions of men are going through each day.  If she had experienced the universal rejection from women that I experience, I am sure she would have killed herself.  Since we don’t see mass suicides from women (in fact when women “threaten” to commit suicide it’s nothing but a tactic for attention whoring) it’s clear that women all have multiple men interested in them at any time.

No Woman Is Unable To Find A Man

When I talk about how no woman wants me there will be a chorus who say, “There are women who have the same problem.”  Yet they can never produce an example of a 32 year old involuntary virgin woman, much less one who has had men do to her what women have done to me.  Many men like myself can’t get a woman to piss on us if we were on fire.  However, no woman is in that situation.  Every woman is able to find a man and does unless she chooses to be alone.  And now I have proof.

At In Mala Fide I found out Donna Simpson, an insane cunt who wants to weigh over 1000 pounds.  She currently weighs somewhere between 600 and 700 pounds.  You would think that such a morbidly obese woman would have a lot of trouble finding a man.  Nope.  She is married and has two kids.  Her current marriage is to her second husband.  Consider how many decent, hard working, smart, at least average if not better than average looking men can’t get a woman.  Yet this woman is able to find men, at least two of them and reproduce.  On top of that she has a website where men pay money to see pictures of her.  Anytime someone tells you that women have as hard of a time in finding men as 80% of men have in finding women, THEY ARE LIARS.  Donna Simpson proves these liars are all full of shit.

Knowing that no matter what a woman can find multiple men interested in her, that explains the extreme and criminal behavior of women towards me and other inexperienced men.  Women believe that men are able to be superpromiscuous because they can be.  That’s not true for at least 80% of men.  In other words because of female projection women don’t really see 80% of men out there.  Those of us in that 80% of men are not really human in women’s minds.  Thus it’s easy for women to think we should be purged as those of us who have had experience with the sexual harasssment industry, the false rape industry etc. We haven’t done anything but exist.  I found this on another blog which explains it well (quoted below).

[Chuck: Exactly. As I wrote, a man that was once considered a "loser" is also now a "creep". A loser is a guy that just exists by himself - doesn't harm a soul. Women now call those same guy's creeps because *merely existing as a socially awkward guy is considered a direct attack*. I believe that it is the same phenomenon as with second-hand smoke or the domestic violence campaign where "mental abuse" conducted at the hands of a man is nothing more than him simply disagreeing with her. No longer are men only harmful if they touch a woman unprovoked; they are also harmful by their mere existence.]

This is another example of how no woman is unable to find a man and how it leads to the dehumanization of those of hated by women.

You Are Not Alone

One reason I started this blog was to let other men in a similar situation to me that they are not alone.  Nothing that I have talked about that has happened to me has only happened to me.  Sexual harassment bullshit?  It’s happened to lots of guys.  Many of them weren’t as lucky as I was.  Psychologists accussing me of lying or having Aspergers (without any real evidence)?  That’s happened to lots of guys too.  I have heard even worse stories like one case where a psychologist tried to covince a dateless virgin man that he had multiple personalities (without any evidence) and that he had sex and relationships with women but couldn’t remember them because it happened with the other personality or personalities were in control.  Simply put, it’s easy to think that you are the only dateless virgin around.  You’re not.

Women and manginas opress dateless virgins (who are all men) because of misandry in general.  Our existence is proof that there is a problem with women and their behavior.  The wants you to think you’re the only dateless virgin around because they don’t want us comparing notes and finding out that the same thing is happening to men from all different walks of life and different personalities.  One “argument” they use against us is the “we’re the only common element so it must be all our fault or our attitude”.  This “argument” is nothing but a bold faced lie.  Many men are going through the same things we go through.  We aren’t clones of each other acting the exact same way.  We have different personalities and different mindsets.  The common factor is not us.  It is female behavior.