One of the tactics the MDAD (Misandrist Dating Advice Distraction) or feminism in general uses is to lie and claim that women have it worse than men do. That doesn’t always work so they jump to the next best thing which is lying and claiming that women have it equally as bad as men. That doesn’t always work either so they lie and claim that women “have it equally bad as men but in a different way” that’s parallel to how bad men have it. This last trick gets used a lot in the MDAD because it’s impossible to seriously claim that men have it worse than women in dating and relationships, and it’s impossible to seriously claim that women have it as bad as men in exactly in the way as men.
One of the ways that this trick is used in the MDAD is by saying, “women can get sex easier, but men can get relationships/commitment easier.” Feminists like Susan Walsh have said it explicitly, and feminists like Amanda Marcotte have implied it. The problem with this is obvious to anyone with a brain:
If you can’t get sex, then you can’t get a relationship.
How would a guy who can’t get laid, get a girlfriend/get commitment? If said guy could get a girlfriend/get commitment, then he’s going to get laid sooner or later with his girlfriend. Being able to get laid and get a relationship/commitment go together. While having sex with someone doesn’t necessarily mean you’re in a relationship with that person, if you’re not having sex with anyone, then you’re definitely not in a relationship with anyone. What this means is that women can getboth sex AND relationships easier than men. This is not surprising since we live in a gynocentric and matriarchal society.
There’s no such thing as a sexless relationship/sexless commitment unless we’re talking about teenagers or ultra-religious couples waiting for marriage. In both cases, the women are still picking men based on the same values that non-religious adult women pick men so there is no difference there. It’s not like most non-alpha 14 year old boys can easily get girlfriends. Even in cases where there is a supposedly sexless relationship going on, things still operate on the same principles as relationships with sex.
Since women can get both sex and relationships more easily than men, why do women and manginas say otherwise? It’s all part of the MDAD. They want to confuse the issue, by claiming that men are “withholding relationships and commitment” from women. In reality, that isn’t happening since non-alpha men can’t get those relationships until women need to be bailed out from the damage caused by their bedhopping with alpha men. Feminists and manginas want to prevent men from knowing the truth about how getting laid and getting relationships currently work.
