I kind of feel sorry for you that you are this paranoid. It would be interesting to hear your story. I’m a virgin woman at age 27 and I feel similar, but it seems that you have let this define you. You seem to have a valid reason for choosing this path and if you are hanging out with people who don’t respect that then well maybe you need new friends. Really if a woman wants to just use you I don’t think it is because you are a virgin. Maybe you are going for the wrong woman. There is someone out there that is not going to try to use you. However, you have to give them the chance.
I’m not “paranoid” by most definitions. On this blog you will not hear about loony conspiracy theories, the new world order, the illuminati, the freemasons, BS about the one dollar bill, Obama birth certificate BS, 9/11 BS, income tax avoidance BS, and many other things I don’t have time to list. Instead I will be talking about my actual experiences and those of fellow male virgins and near virgins and some extrapolation from that. I will tell you about the multiple times women have tried to cause me to lose my job by making up sexual harassment BS against me. I will tell you about the disaster going to “therapy” to try to solve these problems turned out to be. There will also be talk about larger social issues and politics. Women want nothing to do with me, but they are happy to use the government to steal my money.
You really don’t understand what is happening to male virgins and near virgins. This isn’t about my friends. I don’t get any problems from them. They are men who are more or less in the same boat as me.
I have tried to go after every type of woman out there. My standards became really low because after all I didn’t have choice. It didn’t make a difference. Even bottom of the barrel women don’t want me. I could deal with it if women truly left me alone. But with their control of government and all the other abuse and BS they have tried to do to me, they aren’t leaving me alone. As I am a human being with dignity this means fighting back. Before someone accuses me of being the next George Soldini, I don’t mean that. What I mean is that if we male virgins have to stand up for ourselves.