I was reading the MGTOW Forums and found this story about a husband whose 40 year old wife was cheating on him with a 22 year old dude. What caught my attention was the first comment in response which I have copied below.
I got to admit that when I was 22 and had little time and no spare money for dating, I should have thought of these opportunities. This would have given me the resume that I needed for future liaisons.
What men find increasingly after age 25 is that if they haven’t had some sort of extended relationship with a women, women look very suspiciously at them and in fact detest them as “nice guys” – creepy, boring and probably unwilling to commit. It doesn’t matter that they have obtained 3 degrees and professional designation and are debt free. He’s a loser and other women must have determined this, so why take the chance?
Of course, this makes it easier to see that those who are still looking at you have their gaze firmly on your wallet and your ability to provided complete support, so all is not a negative.
However, being “abused” for an extended period by pussy nearly twice my age would have at least had women lining up to get the details for themselves. The spin would be up to me.
I always wondered what the real deal behind cougars was. Women wanting younger men made some sense but not the younger men going for the older women. This explained it. If you are a man with no relationship experience by the time you’re 25 you’re SOL more or less. (The only exceptions are guys like Pro-Male/Anti-Feminist Tech of The Spearhead who I’m sure was doing a combination of lying and shell games. I’m not judging the man. He is just an example of how women have created another shitty situation for men.) The reality of a man’s situation does not matter. For a lot of men I suspect cougars fill the gap since it doesn’t really matter what kind of relationship experience it is along as a woman was involved.
Now we know why cougars can get anywhere: Desperate Men.