When I have talked about my experiences with the anti-male sexual harassment system, there’s always someone who claims that I must have done something or it must be my fault. Their reasoning even though they won’t admit it is because I am a man and they believe that “women are always right”. They will try and also claim that my situation is unique. The truth is my experiences are far from unique. I was reading MarkyMark’s blog and found some other examples of men who have been through the sexual harassment wringer.
Unfortunately, many women took this as an opportunity for revenge on any man who had ever annoyed them or interrupted their career path. I saw this in my own workplace. One sexual harassment complaint set off a chain reaction that created dozens and dozens more. They were all taken with extreme seriousness because of the fear of federal sanctions and lawsuits. I saw one colleague suspended for a week because a female coworker “didn’t like the way he looked at her once.” The HR manager all but admitted to him that it was bogus, but said that he had to take action to avoid a lawsuit or worse.
That was from the 90’s (I assume). Now HR everywhere is explicitly anti-male.
I’ve personally seen exactly this situation. A man who worked at the company from the day it opened was accused of sexual harassment by a career climbing woman, and HR had to take action.
In this case HR was staffed by a lady who literally knew the man her whole life, he was her godfather, and had walked her down the aisle at her wedding.
Everyone at the company knew the complaint was Grade A bullshit, but could do nothing about it. The man who was accused walked into work that Monday and announced he’d rather retire than deal with the office games anymore.
The punchline to the story is that within six months the woman tried the same trick again with another guy, and this time she was caught big time.
The man she was accusing hadn’t even been at work at the times she claimed he was making offensive and lewd passes at her, he was home on paternity leave helping his wife take care of their newborn son.
Which just tells me to never deal with women behind closed doors unless you can prove your innocence if she decides to try and get a payout in the “workplace lotto”.
No matter where you look sexual harassment is nothing but women declaring war on men. Ferdinand Bardamu has pointed out how a man’s relationship history or lack thereof can be used against him in a sexual harassment charge. Sexual harassment is all about women who are out of control and destroying the economy and freedom.