White and Nerdy,
I want to ask you some more questions that I’ve been asking myself lately. If you had the choose between cohabitating with a single mother, taking on a degree of financial and emotional responsibility for her children, and spending the rest of your life alone what choice would you make? To me all ideas about retaining dignity and making sure your keeping within the ideological guidlines of mens rights mean very little when your staring down the barrel of spending decades of your life completely alone. I’m 22, a virgin, never been on a date and all that, but I see my father over 55 completely alone, virtually no chance of getting any worthwhile female attention, living a hermit like existence and slowly withering away. So I know what my future is if I don’t find a solution to my omeganess, and it frightens me more than I can express in words. At this point I truly cannot possibly understand how somebody could say that being a mangina is worse than spending your entire life without any sexual/romantic connections with women whatsoever.
I would say that unless somebody has been a longtime incel who sees no possible change in sight they have absolutely no fucking idea what their talking about. So would you take the single mother, or the woman whose fucked over 100 duides over lifelong virginity?
I wrote an answer but I want to expand on that and make sure everyone sees it.
One of the problems I have with gamers is that they believe (whether they realize it or not) that any woman no matter how bad is worse than being alone. (This is an example of pedestalizing women. PMAFT is the only possible exception to this I have seen and I’m not so sure about that.) This is objectively false. I would rather be alone than be with a single mother with a gaggle of kids that had no genetic relation to me and a stretched out cunt from having been with hundreds of dicks. What is the point of that? To me the answer is obvious. Some of you might say that I only say this because I have never been presented with the choice. I say BULLSHIT to that. Look at it logically from my perspective. How does getting together with a single mother benefit me at all? Sex? Are you really fucking if it’s like throwing a hot dog down a hallway the Grand Canyon? Kids? They aren’t mine. Social acceptance? What’s the point? There’s absolutely no benefit.
Let’s not forget it’s not an either/or situation. It’s possible to get the worst of both worlds of being completely alone and being with a single mother. If a single mother is “interested” in me what does that mean? Does that mean she’s suddenly matured or gotten wiser about men? HELL NO. What she’s looking for is a chump to pay the bill she has run up. I don’t exist to pay off a single mother’s debt. FUCK THAT. I do enough of that involuntary because of taxes I am forced to pay effectively at gunpoint by the government in the feminist socialist totalitarian West. I am not choosing to do that with the rest of my money. And once she’s done with me then what? She will divorce me and take AT LEAST half my stuff. Then I will have to pay child support for kids that aren’t even mine (and that’s true even if I didn’t marry the single mother). This is if I’m lucky. I could also end up losing my freedom in the process. If I’m going to be alone then I will pick the option that preserves my money and freedom as much as possible. That option is not the single mother.
EHF brought up the example of his dad. EHF’s dad obviously got together with one or more women since EHF is here. EHF’s dad was probably married to EHF’s mom at one point. Did this stop EHF’s dad from ending up alone? No it didn’t.
To me the answer is so obvious. I choose to be a lifelong virgin/celibate/alone person because it’s clearly the better option than the “shit sandwich” of a single mother. This isn’t about some sort of “MRA purity” but real practical concerns.
Another question to ask is what is the world going to look like in the future? Even just 10 years from now in 2020? The Misandry Bubble by TFH (despite the fact I disagree with him about game) and PMAFT’s blog are good places to start. With the “adult entertainment” technologies of the future (virtual sex) am I going to even care that I’m alone in the future? More and more men will go on the marriage strike. More and more men are being locked out of relationships with women. Will I look like less of a loser and more like a prophet in the future? I can’t be sure but truths I and a just a small group of men know now will become common knowledge in the future. The misandry bubble can’t go on forever.