9 comments on “There’s No Such Thing As A “Nice Guy”

  1. ‘Nice guy’ is the consolation prize women give to the losers or non-participants of the social-sexual dominance game. Sometimes women will settle for ‘nice guys’ because they think the are more dependable and easier to maintain. What turns them on physically always happens in the social space though – where one man is dominant over others.

  2. Women love jerks. Therefore, the act of being a non-jerk is an inherently non-nice thing. Being a jerk is a nice thing, because that’s what they like. Being a non-jerk is easy, path of least resistance, and absolutely selfish. “Where do you want to go for lunch?” “I dunno, where do YOU wanna go for lunch?”

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  4. Take a hint. If you are complaining about being a nice guy, chances the women who told you this are afraid to tell you the truth, they don’t like you, they think you’re a jerk, they wish you would leave them alone, but they can’t seem to get rid of you because you keep hoping that if you do things to impress her that she will see the light and like you because you’re such a nice guy. Except you’re not. So, start from the beginning and read all that again. Maybe this time it will sink in.

    • Why not take your gaslighting and mentally ill dribble elsewhere.

      Ted Bundy got letters from women and offers of marriage, was he a nice guy?

      If a woman finds a man unattractive, she should just tell them. Most men do not hover around women, that is your paranoid mentally ill mind telling you it is so.

      Women are passive and lazy and expect men to make the first move, then they reserve the right to shoot any man down and deem him a creep for daring to interact with them. Sorry but we are not falling for your double bind games.

      Also you are woman worshiping mental defect, a person being good or not is not defined by how attractive they are.

      To get laid you have to be pushy and attractive.

      If a unattractive guy is pushy he is a creep, while a attractive guy doing the same thing is charming and confident.

      Now get the fuck out of here idiot.

  5. How exactly am I gaslighting? I was agreeing with the author. There is no such thing as a nice guy – a least not one who thinks he is a nice guy. When I was single, I went out with a guy who told me that women kept telling him what a nice guy he was, and the only way for him to get dates was to start acting like a jerk. In the end, he told me he didn’t really like me that much, thought he would give it a shot to see if I would say yes, but didn’t want to stay with me if we weren’t sleeping together. I told him it’s not my style to sleep with people early in a relationship and that I didn’t want to stay with him with that attitude because I don’t go out with jerks and ended it. I was up front with him. So he believed he was a nice guy, but he was never nice to me. He also smelled like goat and regularly had dirt under his nails. This was repulsive – and when I tired to gently ask him to pay attention to these things, he started acting like a jerk. I was actually looking for a nice guy, so his complaints of having been in the friend zone and done all these nice things for girls fell flat because all he did was whine about other girls and be a jerk.

    I stand by what I wrote. Do not waste your time hovering around a woman who doesn’t like you back. If you do that, you’re making an idiot of yourself. The main way to find out if a girl likes you is to ask her out. And move on if she doesn’t want to date you. Sure, be kind, but don’t hover.

    Girls also get bad treatment from guys. It might seem like girls only like jerks, but they might also be caught in the trap of liking someone who doesn’t like them back in the same way. That doesn’t make a guy a jerk necessarily – so enough with girls only liking jerks. When a guy isn’t interested in a girl, he will “be a jerk” to try to get rid of her and isn’t always honest about his real intentions. Women have lick their wounds and move on too.

    What’s with you thinking women are lazy? That’s more about you than it is about them. You should know by now, as a mature adult, that women are coached from the moment they are born – to wait for the man to make the move and if a man doesn’t make a move that he’s not interested. I tried to help things along occasionally by saying that I might be interested and had some men telling me that I was too forward. Dating is really confusing for all parties involved. Mature adults know that and keep trying anyway.

    • “Girls also get bad treatment from guys. It might seem like girls only like jerks, but they might also be caught in the trap of liking someone who doesn’t like them back in the same way. ”

      Weasel language plus passive voice ie typical feminine abdication of personal accountability. I used to think this Savvy was simply a male troll but its now clear she is a woman.

      “What’s with you thinking women are lazy? That’s more about you than it is about them. You should know by now, as a mature adult,”

      And now shaming language, a trifecta !

      “that women are coached from the moment they are born – to wait for the man to make the move and if a man doesn’t make a move that he’s not interested.”

      hahahaha! So you are complaining that you are are the passive recipient in the mating game? This is nonsense of the highest order. Women are perfectly happy with this “handicap” even if it frustrates them every now.

      Seems like that you just like to bitch and whine about something or the other. Yup no doubt about it, you are a woman.

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