Most women have never accused me of sexual harassment. While a good number have generally speaking it’s an incredibly tiny fraction of the female population that has. It’s easy to say that all the women who have accused me of sexual harassment are psychos. While that may be true many more “normal” women have provided aid and comform to the supposedly psycho women. In the case of my false sexual harassment accusations dealing with HR (which was always female) was impossible. They always took my accusers’ side no matter how ludicrious their story was or even when I could show. In that case like all the others, I had to bypass HR and go to a man to get it sorted out.
Some time after I had left my now previous employer I was talking to one of my coworkers from there. After I left that company, he overheard a conversation between two women there. They were talking about me and the false sexual harassment accusation. One of the women said that I should have lost my job due to the accusation because, get this, I was a single man. Being single according to them I would spend my money on Xbox whereas a married man or a woman (either single or married) would have spent their money on their family or other people who “needed it” and in this economy a married man or a woman needed a job but I didn’t. (I am certain that the word “family” effectively means women in this case.) This woman didn’t care about justice or the facts of a situation. She wanted me to lose my job because my money wouldn’t go to a woman unlike like with a married man or a woman (regardless of her marital status).
That woman didn’t accuse me of sexual harassment nor was she involved in the situation in any way. What she did do (or was willing to do) is provide aid and comfort to those women who were willing to accuse me of sexual harassment. She did it (or was willing) because female solidarity is more important to women than justice or facts.
One of the reasons why I have to be wary of women in general is that there is no way of distinguishing between women who will try to destroy my life and those who won’t. Outside of a handful of women who are extreme MRM supporters (and there are so few of those women to matter) women all look the same. (The Spearhead had a post about how women act like sluts and psycho women even when they’re not to provide aid and comfort for those women who are.)
I don’t expect women to act as my personal bodyguard against other women. I don’t think that the actions of a few women reflect on all women. What I think is that for every woman who declares war on me there are many women who are willing to support that woman out of female solidarity even though they would never go after me themselves. That’s the problem.