There are lots of aspects to the MDAD, the Misandrist Dating Advice Distraction. Personally, it’s easy for me to forget about a few of these aspects unless I read something that reminds me of them. Penis size issues are one such aspect. This isn’t something I think about unless I read something about it because living without women penis size issues just don’t come up. Thus I didn’t consider how penis size is a part of the MDAD until I read this article about a 40 year old virgin at The Dickless Man Project.
In that article, a man makes the mistake of asking a dating advice column for help. They focus on all the wrong things, foremost among them his worries about his penis being big enough. This also allows the “advice” columnists to shoehorn in an attack on porn because (video) porn often has men with huge penises. Why do they focus on all the wrong things? Because actually talking about what is causing that man’s problems would involve speaking the truth about women.
Why would the man in that post worry about the size of his penis at all? Porn provides a convenient scapegoat, but that makes as much sense as saying that a man who watches science fiction movies will believe that there are actually spaceships flying from Earth to Mars right now. Plus, the man in that post is 40 years old. A lot of his experiences with porn when he was younger would involve things like Playboy which only show naked women. There aren’t any penises shown for him to develop worries about his penis size from that. Where this man’s (and other men’s) anxiety about the size of their penises come from is women. Women will use callous attacks on a man’s penis size as a weapon against men to keep men in a state of permanent anxiety. We have all seen lots of women make small penis jokes. Are women doing this because porn told them big penises are normal? Of course not.
Penis size anxiety falls into the MDAD because (in addition to women being the cause of it) it gets used as a scapegoat for the problems that women cause. What really happened to the 40 year old virgin in the post? He isn’t having dating problems because he’s worried about the size of his penis. He’s worried about the size of his penis because of the callous nature of women and his dating problems. The dating problems came first, not the penis size anxiety. Blaming dating problems on a man’s penis size anxiety allows women and manginas to distract men from seeing where women cause them problems making it part of the MDAD. It’s also effective for the MDAD because it allows women and manginas to attack alternatives to women and the dating advice industry like porn.
The important thing to gain from this post is to never worry about the size of your penis. You have nothing to worry about. Worrying about the size of your penis just gives women power over you.