34 comments on “Reserves Desperation Derangement Syndrome

  1. “It’s clear that they are so desperate for female contact of any kind that they are willing to let themselves be abused by women. ”

    Yes, this is why it is dangerous for low status men to get entangled with “polyamourous” womyn, dominatrixes or any S&M weirdos.

    https://stonerwithaboner.wordpress.com/2016/05/07/avoid-anyone-into-bdsm/

    I read one of your old posts where you talked about an unfortunate man who was into “small penis humiliation.” Who would subject themselves to such a thing for a scornful woman just to laugh at them?

    • “I read one of your old posts where you talked about an unfortunate man who was into “small penis humiliation.” Who would subject themselves to such a thing for a scornful woman just to laugh at them”?

      Where was this?

    • I read one of your old posts where you talked about an unfortunate man who was into “small penis humiliation.” Who would subject themselves to such a thing for a scornful woman just to laugh at them?

      Thanks for reminding me that I wanted a link to that in this post. I forgot to do that.

      Yes, this is why it is dangerous for low status men to get entangled with “polyamourous” womyn, dominatrixes or any S&M weirdos.

      Absolutely. This will be defended as sexual “fetishes”, but what it really going on is the abuse of men. It is not fetishes. It men so desperate for sexual contact of any kind that they get involved in BDSM, small penis humiliation, or worse.

  2. also, this has been difficult to describe…

    but my problem wasn’t that I couldn’t get a woman and get laid…

    my problems was the occasional broad who showed interest in me was a psycopath/narcisistic/borderline or whatever…

    I knew if I got involved with these broads it would be domestic violence like my stinking parents, so I just walked away. Ironically, if I try to avoid the fight I get shamed for it. If I let myself be a punching bag, I’d be told to man up. And if I hit back I’d be a criminal….

    it would’ve been easier (well, except for the lack of fitness) if I was a manblob like forney/futrelle and then everyone would’ve simply said “just go to a hooker, that’s your only hope.”

    • but my problem wasn’t that I couldn’t get a woman and get laid…

      my problems was the occasional broad who showed interest in me was a psycopath/narcisistic/borderline or whatever…

      And if you manage to avoid that kind of woman, the bigger problem is that there is a lot more women just after your money. I might be able to find women who are willing to fake interest in me (until they find a way transfer my wealth to them) but what’s the point of getting involved with them?

      • And if you avoid those women, desperate self loathing men will accuse you of being a loser, who can’t get women. They try passing their sense of humiliation at being rejected by women onto you.

        Men who feel humiliation at being rejected by women are more desperate and vulnerable to manipulation by women.

        • You can’t con an honest man. And the massive manginas I’ve met are huge manipulators, always trying to sell something.

    • > Ironically, if I try to avoid the fight I get shamed for it. If I let myself be a punching bag, I’d be told to man up. And if I hit back I’d be a criminal…

      very well said.

  3. A few thoughts, one is that the RDD Syndrome can start in high school and intensify in college. If you scan a blog from a desperate self-identified “Incel”, they describe the “problem” starting in the teenage years. They never break through the rationalizations and cognitive dissonance. They go over the same thoughts that make no sense: “in a sane society, I’d get married in three months”, “I’d be an alpha in a sane society”, “people who get laid are scum but I’m better” – that sort of thing.

    Second, it absorbs so much time to be around a woman that a man would be better off doing anything even if a woman was pretty and pleasant (which we know is an act). Be Indiana Jones and travel the world, or James Bond and get an international job, or be a sailor and get paid to see the world, or work for National Geographic and get paid to see see the world, or start a business for the challenge, or work 25 hours a week and stay healthy and read or work on hobbies. Anything is usually better time spent overall. The RDD Syndrome somehow doesn’t let them see the advantages.

  4. Some of the saddest cases are the guys who pay a hefty premium to be crushed by an Amazon. The big women will admit they only do it for the money and have no sympathy.

    At least the international jet set models just can’t help themselves, the big money, fancy party lifestyle is just too enticing. But the “Amazon” women should know better. But as we know, they don’t care.

  5. Is it possible that this is more than about female contact and having a “sexual” relationship with a woman? What if it also includes being religious?
    That is, as you know, society shames and attacks the single male virgin if he is not f*** women or one woman to be his wife. A lot of them will use God’s name is vain to justify their shaming.

    Have you read any of Joshua Harris’s books? I have read his Boy Meets Girl. While it does have a good points and moments, the overall message of the book is nothing more than shaming and attacking the men.
    He has one chapter titled: “If boys acted like men, would women act like ladies again” I am sure that speaks for itself.
    In another chapter, he just glosses over how there are ‘some’ cases where women abuse men, but then he goes over into some huge apologetic moment saying that men have failed women. It is all the men’s fault. We’re not being manly enough. Oh, those poor women who have been abused.
    He basically blames all of woman’s sexual sins on men.
    In another chapter, he preaches that God doesn’t grade on a curve. All sins are deserving of hell.
    It feels like such people want to apply communism and Marxism to all sins despite how they “preach” against them. They want to treat them all equal, particularly in the sex department.
    Society seems to believe that it is better to be married and divorced than to be never married at all.

    Society seems more focuses on catching the male virgin with porn magazines than the ones who are actually hurting women.

    In another one of his books titled: “Sex is not the Problem, Lust Is.” I have not read it and I don’t plan to. Anyway, I found an interesting comment by someone who gave this book 3 out of 5 stars on Amazon

    Here is a piece of his comment:
    “…You see I’m a thirty year old single male Christian virgin who has been praying for a wife for over a decade. The paragraph that upsets me says something to this effect:

    “Let me just throw this out there. Get married. I know this might seem like strange advice to put in this book blah blah blah. If you have tried to find a spouse and have been unsuccessful, I’m sorry if this advice is frustrating.” (NOT verbatim, don’t stone me but I feel I captured the essence of the statement.)

    FRUSTRATING? That’s a wee bit of an understatement there Joshy boy… It made me wanna throw your book in the trash right then. Aside from frustrating singles with that comment, you have set up a false premise that marriage magically makes lust go away. This is simply untrue, and not what you teach in the rest of the book to be fair, but even if it’s not what you mean to imply, it is clearly what is implied in such a statement. You are guilty of turning marriage into an idol along with the rest of fundamentalism and evangelicalism unfortunately….”

    Based on this, it feels like he and the rest of society, particularly toward the men, are saying this, “If you go to your grave an unmarried virgin, you’re going to hell. A wedding ritual is the only thing that can wash you clean of your sexual sins.”

    This may be why that man married that woman 10 years older than him despite him knowing that she just wanted him for his money and for a child. That man felt there was nobody lined up behind her. If he didn’t get married at least once in his life, he was going to answer to God for it.

    • I you ever meet a professional religious person, you can count that their product is full of complete bullshit. The only knowledge in there is how to keep people coming back to buy more.

      If you ever meet a truly wise person, they will give away their wisdom for free and care not about making money off of it.

      Legend has it that the great Lao Tzu gave away the Tao Te Ching for free.

      The greatest Christian movie scene ever filmed is the one where Jesus of Nazareth gives Judah Ben Hur a cup of water. Stupid Christians will be “in awe” of the power of God that stares down the Roman Centurion.

      In other words, stupid Christians will revel in the power trip over the supernatural (God) conquering temporal power (the Roman Empire).

      But the point of the scene is that Jesus gives Ben Hur the water for nothing. That fact is the one that changes Ben Hur forever.

  6. This is sad but the need for companionship in humanity is very strong. For men and women it is rather biological. For women it is stronger but of course they can get it fulfilled more easily because- vagina.

    My mother actually did quite a number on me. I wont go into details but the abuse was mostly mind games and casual cruelty as one can expect of narcissistic mothers with two sisters of whom one was my dads favorites and the other mom’s favorite. I didnt mind really as Iong was left alone—i was never left alone. Scapegoat was my role. And then my mother had the audacity to state I was spoiled.

    Because of all this in my youth I had trouble making friends while my sisters were quite popular. She would mock me for being introverted(which she would encourage) in contrast to my sisters who were the life of the party. Dont get me started on my sisters- they were strident feminist and leftists. However they were utter hypocrites. One of them dated a handsome white South African who was of the opinion that Mandela was a terrorist and should have been shot and that SA should be resegregated. She didnt say ANYTHING. Another was a supporter of the Soviet Union but got her American green card ASAP. And I would get the treatment when I pointed this out-insert shaming tactic here- I heard them all.

    I say this because these men would do good to stay away from toxic family members who could well be the problem.Some women especially are emotional vampires and feed off your misery thereby encouraging it some more. Not all women mind you but they are there in your family.

    While I like horror movies, I sometimes wonder why I watch since I came across people who were just as bad as monsters and more terrifying-my own family members

    • ” However they were utter hypocrites. One of them dated a handsome white South African who was of the opinion that Mandela was a terrorist and should have been shot and that SA should be resegregated. She didnt say ANYTHING”

      The extreme leftist Gloria Steinem who worships North Korea, dated the war criminal Henry Kissinger.

      Women do not have principles.

      • Women are also massive hypocrites. Gloria Steinem repeatedly said marriage was an oppressive institution and how men were overlords.

        Naturally, when she became old and could not use her sexuality to manipulate men as well she married an wealthy old geezer that was on his last breaths.

        And don’t forget how she used to be a playboy model as well.

        The only shocking thing about all of this is how our society is too asinine to notice how none of these women never practiced what they preached. Women are all full of shit.

    • “Dont get me started on my sisters- they were strident feminist and leftists. However they were utter hypocrites. One of them dated a handsome white South African who was of the opinion that Mandela was a terrorist and should have been shot and that SA should be resegregated.”

      This comic here illustrates female behaviour pretty well:

  7. You mentioned that the Forever Alone sub-reddit has been taken over by women in relationships and manginas whom they keep as pets… That is another very common phenomenon. There have actually been several incel forums and such that have been openly infiltrated by women and taken over. These women worm their way in by appealing to the desperate and weak mods or admins running the show, and eventually find their way to power and influence. Once that happens, it’s all downhill from there.

    The main problem with these forums by and for incels is that there is always going to be one or two guys in the leadership staff who simply do not understand their own weakness when it comes to women. I’ve seen it all — from guys giving manipulative women back-door access to hidden areas, hoping for a little bit of favor with her (just like a heroin junkie doing anything for a hit), to women turning a message board about incel into a pseudo rape recovery board overnight, and banning men for seemingly nothing.

    Women are like ferrets when it comes to a male incel’s online equivalent to a “safe space”, and make it a non-stop effort to work their way through the barriers around them. Some men are flattered, and assume that it means that the women are trying to get through to these men, but that is just another desperate incel fantasy. Women are going into these places to try and disrupt the possible development of coherency among rejected men, I guess for the same reasons a cat toys with a mouse until it’s dead.

    My advice? Stay away from these places altogether. Stay away from women. Don’t make contact with them, don’t let them try to make contact with you, and keep them at arm’s length.

    • Some claim I’m too angry and bitter with women. I think men like this aren’t angry enough.

      I think a man needs to keep a certain amount of anger and callousness towards women to remember women’s nature and realize why he should stay clear of it. These men are not angry. They are simply depressed and despite their supposed resignation, secretly still desire any attention they can get from a woman.

      This leaves them extremely vulnerable to manipulation and abuse.

  8. I think you’re being too hard on reddit’s ForeverAlone.

    As a poster there here’s how I see it’s moderation policies: we have two options as far as how to run our blogs, websites, forums, ect. One is the no-moderation way where we insist on ideological purity, speaking our mind and demanding that others name the enemy. Now that surely has it’s place, Wizardchan, /pol/, ect are good examples of it. But you run into problems, one is outside hostility. Reddit deleted /CoonTown/ for instance, and clown site Return of Kings is constantly the victim of comment trolling and DDos attacks. It also alienates those who might be partial to our views but are unwilling to go to an explicitly “extremist” website.

    Places like ForeverAlone provide a place where we can express our worldview, without allowing the $PLC-types to put them into the “hate-group” ghetto. ForeverAlone attracts people that /pol/ would not, and we can expose them there to our worldview. We do it in an implicit way, we’re not there, and the forum isn’t there, to discuss “politics.” But, if they spend enough time on the site they will see that we are anti-feminists, some for the simple reason that they can look at what we write on other subreddits. Much of the strength of liberalism is based on imparting in it’s victims an immediate reaction to the heretic, a disgust, an aversion. Through interacting with them in a friendly way on Forever Alone, we can disarm the tendency, and eventually they will start to see the real enemy.

    I’m not sure what you mean by “the reserves” “conditioning” men to think that way. “Conditioning” implies some kind of intentional process. I think there’s a simpler explanation: hormones. Men want sex, and they’re willing to put up with a whole lot of crap to get it. I knew a guy like that: he was in a LTR with a girl who he knew cheated on him. At first he tried to act like he didn’t care, that it was an “open relationship” and he was doing it too, but eventually he told me that, no, it was just her, and that it hurt him deeply. I advised him to break off the relationship, but I didn’t push the issue. Eventually, he decided to leave the relationship. I think a lot of those guys who said they would rather be cuckolded did so because they can’t imagine the pain cuckoldry causes, as they have never been in a relationship before.

  9. Sex isn’t everything tho and the “Bull” isn’t much better off than the “cuck.”

    Many people seem to believe that the “Bull” is the dominant one, the “alpha” and humiliating the “cuck”, while in reality the women is abusing and humiliating both of them equally.

    There is nothing great and romantic about being a low-life “bad boy” – these guys are usually all broke and damaged and don’t have a high life expectancy. It’s not as glamorous as in some hip hop video, some nazi meme like that comic or some old socialist propaganda about “working class heroes.”

    They are also not “dominant”, because all the “power” they have in the bedroom doesn’t mean shit in the grand scheme of things. On Stoner’s blog I’ve compared them to dogs that bark and that look dangerous and threatening and big, but who are actually neutered, housebroken and kept on the leash of a female who treats them as disposable objects. If one “bad boy” ends up in prison (also nothing romantic and glorious about that), she just picks a new one. And we all know how easy it is for women to get rid off a man or even send him to prison if she isn’t satisfied with his performance anymore.

    There is also nothing great and “alpha” about a woman just using you for your money. Sure, there is lots of variability among men but the vast majority all want a real relationship sooner or later – and are then surprised and get angry when they find out that the woman wants her cuck for intimacy, cuddling and watching TV, and use the other man for sex and/or money only.

    Men think that if they fuck a woman they have “won”, and only later find out that the women are just using them like a big dildo. Men think that THEY are the ones using women and that women are fragile, romantic little flowers – and are then getting bitter, angry, hurt when they find out that the woman is using them.

    I have some RL experience with BDSM and people in these related subcultures (“open relationships”, “polyamory”, etc.) and most of it I found to be disgusting: there is no way for a man to “win” and the man who fuck the women end up just as broke and angry as the man who are getting cucked, the men who “dominate” the women end up just as controlled, shamed and subordinate to women as other men.

  10. It can happen to everyone.

    Even to Johnny Depp who is one of the highest status men, maybe even THE most high status man in the world: high artistic status through independent arthouse movies, high celebrity status through blockbuster movies, high economical status through being a multi millionaire, high sex symbol status, and given his dating history with young supermodels I doubt that he lacks “game” like Mark Zuckerberg might lack it. And still…

    • Let us remember this as the day that Captain Jack Sparrow got almost kept his woman. Let us hope this is the last time a woman slaps Jack, literally and figuratively, in the face. 🙂

    • And now she accuses him of domestic violence!

      If that doesn’t wake some guys up that not even JOHNNY DEPP(!) is safe, I don’t know what will…

      • She’s only now accusing him of “pirate” behavior?

        In a more serious tone, the men who finally go MGTOW do it because they experience countless episodes of direct and unacceptable behavior from women. It is their direct life experience that tips them over the edge. An incident like Depp/Heard that makes the celebrity rags gets noticed by MGTOW-minded guys who take their personal experience to the rest of the world to test it. Guys who are still excusing female behavior in their own direct lives will remain white knights and manginas in the face of this type of ridiculous manipulation.

  11. There was a MGTOW guy who used to do videos called SixSensessss from Australia who used to be in the BDSM community. He said he left the BDSM and won’t go back because all the women were abusive even as “subs” and they would often put him in a legally precarious position.

    Basically, I see the BDSM as a more pure, distilled form of human sexuality. If a woman is “dom”, she makes her man slave pay, do her bidding, and protect her. If a woman is a “sub”, then she demands that her man protect her, pay for everything and do the “dom” role to her “sub” role how she demands it.

    It’s men lose/lose.

    But the men are super thirsty and will flock to any thin woman that shows up at a BDSM forum. They’ll also put up with obese women, but thin women get first dibs.

    Go to any BDSM forum and you will see women who are thin with mugly faces get hit on and right away turn around and reveal that they are in it to be highly abusive of men. Why are you messaging me, loser? That’s all you have to say is “hi?”, loser? Those types of comments.

    I’m just leaving this here as info from an outsider to BDSM; just an observation that all the info is consistent.

    • You guys are clueless about BDSM. The submissive women I dominate do not abuse me, make me do dishes or control the finances. They can’t do any of those things because I’m not married to them. If one of them suddenly doesn’t like the way I’m doing things, she gets dropped and is easily replaced.

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