Hating women is a good thing. It can save your life. I don’t just mean examples such as how hating women means you won’t end up in situations where you could get falsely accused of a crime even though that is an example of how hating women can help you. I mean it literally. Hating women prevents men from comitting suicide.
On Friday, celebrity chef, author and TV host Tony Bourdain committed suicide in France while filming his show, Parts Unknown, for CNN. Bourdain’s body was found by his best friend (and fellow chef) Eric Ripert who noticed that Bourdain had been in dark mood the last few days before his suicide. In other words, something happened to Bourdain in the days leading up to his suicide that caused him to choose to take his own life. What could have happened to Bourdain in the few days leading to his death?
Bourdain’s girlfriend was Asia Argento, one of the #MeToo women, accusing Harvey Weinstein of rape rather than admit she “semi-prostituted” herself to Weinstein. Bourdain had been a very outspoken mangina in his support of Argento and #MeToo. In the last few days, evidence surfaced that Argento was cheating on Bourdain with a French journalist. Additionally, Argento posted a picture of herself on Instagram in a Sid Vicious shirt that said on it, “Fuck Everyone” with the caption, “You know who you are,”. A lot of people in the food world have called Bourdain, “The Sid Vicious of cooking”. Argento deleted the post shortly after his death was reported. Bourdain’s friend, Mark Simone, believed that Argento was cheating on Bourdain the whole time they were together.
Based on this, it is likely that Bourdain found out that Argento was cheating on him and that Argento is a total liar. He realized that he had been used by Argento for work (since Argento had directed a few episodes of Bourdain’s CNN show, Parts Unknown), and that he had been had with his support for #MeToo/Argento against Weinstein. Bourdain’s previous relationships with women were also pretty horrid. There have been rumors that Bourdain’s second wife, Ottavia Busia, cheated on him while they were married. Bourdain and Busia got married only after several weeks of meeting each other so regardless of whether she cheated on him they probably should never have been married in the first place. Bourdain’s first wife, Nancy Putkoski (who was older than him), is likely the person who introduced him to drugs. Bourdain described their married life as being criminals together. Bourdain became suicidal after he divorced her.
Bourdain’s self image and mental state was completely dependent on women. This had been noticed by John Tesar, another chef, when he made a comment about Bourdain’s first wife that caused an angry reaction from Ottavia Busia. Tesar said the following about it.
“She [Ottavia Busia] got mad at me,” he says. “I made a comment about his first wife [Nancy Putkoski] on The Braiser, and his new wife got pissed off. She wears the pants. Trust me. He’s always been dragged around by his dick. A lot of guys are. It’s nice that he always marries women with strong personalities to take care of him because then he can just wander around, get stoned, drink and tell stories. He’s like f–king Ernest Hemingway.”
Bourdain was not different from many incels whose self image and mental state is completely dependent on women. Both love women and are completely dependent on them (despite lacking a woman in the case of incels). There is a lot suicidal ideation in incels forums because of this. It’s basically the same as what Bourdain went through. Like Bourdain many incels have committed suicide because they were mentally completely dependent on women. We are used to thinking as incels as almost some separate species, but in reality they are no different than other men. Bourdain and incel men are practically the same despite Bourdain being able to get women.
What would have helped both Bourdain and incel men is hating women. When a man hates women, his self image and mental state is not dependent on women. A woman’s actions can not cause a man who hates women to become depressed or suicidal. Hating women saves men from committing suicide. Suicide rates are increasing among men, and there is a reason why. It’s because too many men are dependent on women. The media is trying to hide the fact that the nearly all sucide is done by men by constantly bringing up Kate Spade’s suicide along with Bourdain’s suicide and by blaming guns. Women are using men, emotinally (and sometimes physically) abusing men more and more causing men to commit suicide. (I’m fairly certain that the opioid epidemic also is due to women use and abuse of men as well.) Hating women protects a man against women so it is how men can save their lives.
If Anthony Bourdain hated women, he would be alive today. That is a fact.