Roosh Never Got Laid In Ukraine

Roosh went to the Ukraine where he supposedly got laid using game and wrote a book about it.  Roosh was interviewed on a Ukrainian TV show, and they exposed Roosh as a fraud.  In some ways it was as bad as Roosh’s appearance on the Dr. Oz show.  (Roosh clearly needs to stop appearing on TV for his own good.)  While watching this video, make sure closed captioning in on to see subtitles in English.

Starting at 5:00, the host of the TV show brings in two women that Roosh allegedly met and banged while in the Ukraine.  Roosh had pictures of them on his website.  Neither woman knew who Roosh was.  One of the women said that she was going to sue Roosh for using pictures of her without her permission.  The TV show actually did find a woman who had met Roosh.  This woman was not interested in him, but Roosh spent a whole lot of time chasing her.  Roosh denied knowing her.

The TV show also brought out the man that Roosh stayed with while he was in the Ukraine.  Roosh lied to this man by telling him that he was doing research on nightclubs for his employer.  This man also confirmed that Roosh always struck out with women while he was in the Ukraine.

If you have been wondering why it costs Roosh $6500 each time he gets laid, Roosh’s appearance on this TV show proves why.  Roosh is rarely getting laid, and the stories of him getting laid in his books are all or nearly all fiction.

It’s Not A Numbers Game

Something you will hear from not only gamers but all pushers of dating advice is that dating is a numbers game.  They say that you need to talk to as many women as possible and ask them out.  Of course, gamers and everyone else pushing dating advice hardly ever talk to girls.  Thus, they don’t know if dating is actually a numbers game.  A guy actually tried the numbers game advice.  In this video, he describes his results.

That’s right.  It didn’t work.  He asked out tons of women, and it got him absolutely nowhere.  Anytime when someone talks about dating being a numbers game, they are full of shit.

PUA Talks To Women And Gets Into Trouble With Police Proving Game Does Not Exist

There’s this PUA in Canada that was going around talking to women. Instead of being impressed with his game, they filed complaints with the police.  While this has to do with how the PUA was recording the conversations he was having with these women (such recordings are not illegal in Canada), that shouldn’t make a difference.  In fact, it was the PUAs behavior that made the women suspicious.  None of the women knew that they were being recorded while PUA was talking to them.  The PUA’s behavior was suspicious enough for the women to do some digging on the internet and find out that they were being recorded.  If game actually existed then the PUA should have been able to game these women into not being suspicious and not filing complaints with the police.

This is just another example of how game does not exist.

This Makes As Much Sense As Drawing A Pentagram And Sacrificing A Goat Or Selling Your Soul To The Devil

Advancedatheist brought up how dating advice sounds like magic rituals.

OT: Have you noticed how some dating advice sounds like magic rituals?

The one about learning to dance makes me laugh. You might as well tell the incel to draw a pentagram on the ground and sacrifice a goat over it to appease the fertility gods.

It’s actually worse than that because in many cases dating advice actually is based on anti-scientific, illogical, magical woo.  I found an article on the Dickless Mangina Project where a woman responds to a man who is understandably frustrated how he has to do all of the approaching.  Here is an example of the anti-scientific, illogical, magical crap.

Thus remember that what you resist persists… if you stay resentful… that means your vibration and beliefs are one of resentment… so you’re going to attract an experience to make you right about it. AKA a woman who says, “You better make all the decisions or I’m outta here.”

Vibrations?  If women aren’t approaching you, then you’re vibrations are wrong?  No woman is going to come up with the thought process of, “I was going to approach this guy, but since he has had to approach in his experiences with women, I’m going to avoid him because his vibrations are wrong.”  This is insulting to our intelligence.

The author of that page on the Dickless Mangina Project runs a blog called Meet Mindful.  In the above quote, she links to one of the pages on her blog about “manifestation”.  Here are some excerpts from that page showing more of the same anti-scientific, illogical, magical crap.

Your ability to manifest a life you want is based on energy flow

The Universe responds to actions first, then thoughts.

The physical world is the last stop on the manifestation train. It’s where ideas are realized, broken down or reborn. Because the physical world is slower moving than any of the other creative levels, in order to become manifested, an idea must be in alignment with other things in your physical life. For instance, if all you think about is wanting love in your life, what you feel is lonely and what you do is isolate yourself from others and judge them, the Universe receives this as, “I’d prefer to be by myself, thank you.”

Asking for help is my final bit of advice. I am a fan of working with the angels and there are many just waiting to give you assistance when it comes to manifestation—Galgaliel: the angel of vibration, Jamaerah: the angel of manifestation, Amitiel: the angel of truth, and Metatron: the angel of thought—are all spiritual teachers of this process and can assist freely if you ask.

This is so absurd that it makes the manuresphere look like the pinnacle of scientific fact and rationality.

The universe doesn’t respond to anything.  It is not a conscious entity.  If it was, it certainly wouldn’t be a cosmic wishing well with strange rules.  And energy flow?  That’s a load of crap.  You’re better off drawing a pentagram and sacrificing a goat.  It makes more sense.

As for asking those “angels” for advice, that can either be absurd or dangerous depending on your belief system.  If they don’t exist, they can’t help you.  If you’re a member if a religion that believes in angels, then the angels listed above either don’t exist (Metatron isn’t referenced in the Bible anywhere) or are demons (Amitiel works with Lucifer, aka the devil).  It seems like MeetMindful is using dating advice as a scam to trick men into the occult.  We know that dating advice is commonly used as a scam to trick men into believing in various political ideologies, but using dating advice to trick men into the occult is one I wasn’t expecting.

If you’re going to go into the occult to perform magical rituals to get laid, then you might as well just sell your soul to the devil.  While you lose your immortal soul in the process, the devil will deliver on his end of the contract.  The dating advice industry can’t do that.  Of course, you should not sell your soul to the devil to get laid (or for any other reason).  If the devil doesn’t exist, then you can’t sell your soul to him and the whole enterprise is a waste of time.  If the devil does exist, your immortal soul is more valuable than any woman so you shouldn’t give it up just to get laid.

Does The Manuresphere Even Lift?

One thing the manuresphere will tell you to do is lift weights.  Unlike the rest of what the manuresphere tells you, lifting weights is a fine hobby.  Yet, it’s not the requirement that the manuresphere makes it out to be.  Given how much the manuresphere hypes lifting weights, you would expect manurespherians to be serious about lifting weights and exercise in general.  However, you would be wrong.

Fatt Fuck Fornedarmu says you’re a loser who masturbates and eats Cheetos all day and doesn’t understand why you and many other people are laughing at him.

All you need to do is look at pictures of manurespherians to see that they don’t lift or even care about excercise.  Fatt Fuck Fornedarmu is one such example, but the manuresphere is filled with fat blobs like Fatt Fuck Fornedarmu.  (Barbarossa has pointed out that the picture to the left was taken after Fatt Fuck Fornedarmu was supposed to have been on a two year diet and exercise regimen that failed.) They are even too stupid to see their own hypocrisy when they accuse MGTOWs of eating Cheetos and masturbating all day and attacking others for being fat.  (Ironically, it’s likely that the targets of the manuresphere’s fat shaming campaigns are less fat than the fat blobs of the manuresphere.)

Given that the manuresphere is incapable of exercising, it’s no surprise they fall for scams like the paleo diet.  It promises a quick cure all to being a fat blob.  Yet, as we see from the fat blobs of the manuresphere, it does not work.  Beyond that we have to wonder how man manurespherians say they’re on the paleo diet, but are too lazy to actually follow that scam diet.  Why should you listen to diet advice from guys who either can’t follow through with a scam diet like the paleo diet or conclusively prove that it doesn’t work?

This “do as I say, not as I do” attitude is prevalent throughout the manuresphere.  Some of the biggest proponents of game, are guys who have never actually tried game themselves to see if it actually works.  They just heard it does from other manurespherians.  Why should you listen to dating advice from guys who haven’t even tried it themselves but heard it works from someone else?  The manuresphere can’t even follow its own advice when it comes to something everyone knows is healthy like lifting weights.  If they can’t do that, then there is no reason to listen to them on bullshit like the paleo diet or game or any other weird shit they believe.

The problem of not following their own dating advice extends beyond the manuresphere and into the dating advice industry in general.  Pretty much any dating advice you get is going to be from someone who hasn’t tried it themselves.  (This is not surprising as most dating advice is designed to keep you in The Reserves and not actually help you get dates/sex/girlfriends.)  There is the alternative of actually running experiments with dating advice and gathering data to see how it works, but such things are kryptonite to the dating advice industry.  Since they’re unwilling to perform experiments and gather data, their unwillingness to use their own dating advice proves it’s bullshit.

Predatory Sex Therapists In Silicon Valley

I found this article about how sex therapy in Silicon Valley is a booming business.  What it doesn’t tell you is that these sex therapists are preying on male techies in a way that should be considered malpractice. Let’s look at what these sex therapists have to say.

There’s something else at play here, though: In general, tech workers are more vulnerable to issues around love and intimacy, according to several local sex therapists I’ve interviewed. The reasons for this are wide-ranging, but in Dan’s particular case, it resulted from being tagged as a prodigy at a young age. He excelled in science and was encouraged to pursue it to the exclusion of all else.

“These are the tropes of tech development,” says Elizabeth McGrath, his sex therapist, who shared his story with me. (McGrath did not give me her patient’s name, and asked me to use a pseudonym when writing about him.) “To his mind, and his processing, there was no desire to prioritize anything other than that.”

No, this is not a trope of tech development. Even by the sex therapist’s admission, tech guys are in a path created by external forces, yet she tries to make this the fault of tech guys. What actually happened is that these men were being groomed for The Reserves. However, it worked a little too well. These guys managed to avoid getting ensnared by used up women in a bizarre form of good luck for these guys. As we will see these sex therapists aren’t acting in the best interests of their male tech clients, but instead are trying to reroute them back into The Reserves.

“[These men] often spend their time in environments that are mostly male, like in school and tech offices,” explains another therapist, Celeste Hirschman. “So they don’t have a lot of practice just relating to women, period, let alone learning how to meet, pickup, seduce, touch.”

Of course, this is true, but that’s because women don’t want them until they need a chump with money to pay their bills. How do these sex therapists help men get practice with women?

Hirschman follows a less-traditional therapy method known as Somatica, which is “body-based” and allows for non-genital touch between the counselor and client, the idea being that there are things that can’t be learned through talk alone. For example, she will wrestle with clients just to get them out of their heads and into their bodies.

“Less traditional” likely means crackpot in this case.

“Getting them out of their heads” does not get them experience interacting with women. It certainly does not get these men experience actually having sex with women. And if they’re like the 40 year old male virgin that the article talks about, he is going to need significant sexual experience to have relationships with age appropriate women. Adult women who are virgins are practically nonexistent.

Another reason that a lack of sexual experience is a problem is that these tech guys won’t recognize women who are out to steal their money. The sex therapists say that such women don’t exist.

Hirschman says some of her clients will downplay or hide the money they make out of fear that it’s the primary reason a woman will be interested in them. “I had one client I was just talking to the other day, he said, ‘I don’t know if I want to bring women to my house right away because it’s a big, huge house and suddenly they’re wanting to nest after the second date and they haven’t even gotten to know me yet!’”

McGrath believes that while there may be women out there on the prowl for a Google billionaire, these men’s fears largely come from deep-seated personal insecurity. “Part of that is, ‘A woman couldn’t be interested in me for me,’” she says. “That is a common thread for many men who are in the tech industry. They have never been seen as ‘the boyfriend’ or felt attractive or sexy. They felt dorky or like outsiders.”

This is not personal insecurity. It is what they have observed not only in their own lives but in the lives of many other men. Playing this off as a problem that only affects “Google billionaires” is like saying that bank robbers only try to rob Fort Knox and not small town banks with lax security.

One thing that gets repeated over and over is how these tech guys are “too much in their own heads”. In other words, these sex therapists don’t want them thinking. In fact, these sex therapists attack everything that made the tech guys so successful.

Another common issue that these therapists encounter with tech clients is they treat sex like a line of broken code in need of debugging, or a mathematical equation. “That’s the crux of trying to interact with a human, though: there isn’t a formula,” says McGrath. “Human connection is not formulaic. Does it have statistics, can you look at data, can you research it and quantify it? Sure. But in one-to-one, it is always variable. That’s where those things fail.”

This is an admission that these sex therapists don’t want their male tech clients using their best asset, their brains, making observations, or using the scientific method. (As we know attacking the scientific method is common to purveyors of dating advice.) The tech guys might actually notice the real nature of women and how vile it is, not to mention that they are being scammed by their sex therapists.

However, there is a big problem for the sex therapists when they attack data and the scientific method. If the tech guys are wrong for using those tools, then sex therapy can’t be based on science which uses those tools. It means that what these sex therapists are doing is no better than voodoo. By selling their voodoo as therapy, these sex therapists are quacks and con artists. The reason they are in Silicon Valley is for the same reason that bank robbers rob banks. That’s because banks are where the money is, and in this case it has little to no security protecting it.